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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 19, 2023

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One, it's an interesting change from the situation where most if not all medical procedures require parental consent with relatively rare and limited exceptions.

Well yeah, it's where the medical meets the cultural. It's kind of like if a child required blood transfusion, and the parents are Mormons who'll say no, and don't blood transfusions sometimes cause rejection? Except in this case, I doubt the child's consent would even be asked, I'd expect the doctors to just do it.

if social acceptance is gender-affirming care, isn't having a relationship also gender-affirming care?

So far "no, you don't have a right to another person's intimacy, not even if you want to die without it" works well enough.

Three, after Diane Ehrensaft talked about toddlers removing barrettes as a non-verbal sign of gender non-conformity, and she wasn't immediately laughed out of the room and defrocked into obscurity, my consideration that there was meaningful consideration occurring on the topic dropped substantially.

I don't know who that is. I suspect the only people who do are the kind of people who don't do the consideration and those who are fed outrage fuel - and only the former are present in her audience.

I don't know who that is. I suspect the only people who do are the kind of people who don't do the consideration and those who are fed outrage fuel - and only the former are present in her audience.

She's a credentialed clinical psychologist. If that doesn't matter unless enough people have heard about her, why do we bother with credentials? Also, how many people, exactly, would need to have heard about her for it to matter? Maybe I can solve the issue with some targeted ads.