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Sure many basic human needs can be satisfied using the path you outlined, at least this might make you too busy for existential frustration, but one might ask - is that what's life really about? Would it be insolent and foolish to ask "is there more?" Is that a solution, or a way of preventing yearning for a solution from driving you mad?
A problem of over-engineering or over-evolving of the human brain.
When you build a car that needs to go at most 80mph on the highway, you don't make it only capable of going 80mph. Instead you build it to go 160mph, but going that speed creates lots of wear and tear at a much faster rate.
Human brains are capable of handling extreme stress and difficult problem solving situations. Sometimes it is necessary for survival. But our comfortable cruising speed is much slower. The 'have a family, have friends, have an easy job' is like going 45mph. Most people can easily sustain making one of those things more stressful. They can have a larger family, take on a harder job, or be the organizer that creates social events for other people to maintain friendships, that might take them up to 60-80mph. Things like being in a war, fighting for survival, etc are taking you up to 120mph and beyond. Its not a healthy cruising speed, but some adrenaline junkies do get addicted to driving that fast. I've known one or two brilliant minds that burned out going those speeds for too long.
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