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Culture War Roundup for the week of May 22, 2023

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What would flatter one girl would get another to want to call the cops.

You can see how Loss Aversion might lead me to avoid talking to women at all. =(

In my opinion it's a good thing to go on dates even with women you're not super attracted to, because the cost of one evening and paying for dinner is small compared the experience gained at socializing and the potential opportunity to unexpectedly connect.

First I need to find someone who's willing to go on a date with me.

Like every profile, in my experience it does not actually lower your elo, and takes much less time and energy than trying to determine whether you're attracted to someone who 99% will not match you anyway.

Does this mean I should just click "like" on hundreds of profiles? (Here I was being respectful and actually reading each profile and thinking about it first.)

Ask for their social media at the first good opportunity

What social media things are most popular these days? (I've heard tell that Facebook is dying and I'm behind the times.)

Lower your standards until your main concern is that she's not a danger to herself or others. Don't go out with that type unless you are okay with being in jail or the hospital. Then go on a lot of dates. See if you can build your social skills. Maybe you will find an unexpected connection.

Don't go out with that type unless you are okay with being in jail or the hospital.

You were asked to drop this. You didn't. 3-day ban.

Last I checked Facebook was still waaaaaaay bigger than all the alternatives proposed by people who say it's dying put together. I think that's mostly people trying to be all hipster-y.

(EDIT: Looked up some numbers and this is no longer true as stated. Insta in particular is far closer to catching up than I would have guessed. But it's still only close to catching up, not in danger of eclipsing it or anything.)

Does this mean I should just click "like" on hundreds of profiles? (Here I was being respectful and actually reading each profile and thinking about it first.)

In my opinion, yes.

What social media things are most popular these days? (I've heard tell that Facebook is dying and I'm behind the times.)

It depends on personal preference. The main ones I think are Instagram, Snapchat, Discord. You can just ask "Do you have any socials?" then they'll give you any they want to share.

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