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So again, if this is your stance, what makes you think you'll be against pedophile rights if they come up again? It doesn't really look like you think it's bad, in fact you're saying it's nothing new now. And are you against banning it on the grounds that on a societal level it's a blip or not? Would you mind answering my arguments directly, instead of gesturing going off on tangents?
Because I am against them now, and as a man in my 50's my political and moral compass hasn't much changed in about the last 25 years. And I was against it last time it was even mentioned in polite circles. And I used to work in a CSE task group when I was part of government, so I have actually dealt with actual pedophiles and groomers and their victims.
Why do YOU think it would change? Does yours? Do you flip flop on the morality of pedophilia? If so why? Most people have their standard views affected by social pressure, but I've never met anyone whose views changed on agreeing with pedophilia or something similar. It's renowned as being the thing that unites like 99% of people. There is a reason they are usually segregated from other prisoners and the like.
However, my point overall is not whether kids getting married at 14 is good or trans kids getting transitioned at 14 is good because that is largely irrelevant at a social level anyway. But that we already have established parameters as to whether kids can do X thing which is controversial and we don't usually allow kids to do. Generally if the parents (and sometimes doctors if it is medical) agree it is mostly fine. If the parents disagree then a court can weigh in (judicial authority can substitute for parental permission in underage marriage or emancipation for example). Whether it is good or bad is entirely orthogonal to the point as to whether something generally not allowed should be allowed with oversight for minors. We have an entire structure for it already set up often involving medical procedures. Just throw the whole "underage trans treatment" issue into that bucket and pragmatically speaking we are done.
Now for me, I think if a 14yo is committed enough to being trans they want surgery, and their parents agree, and their doctors agree, then it is probably a good thing to let them go through with it, because there is no chance I know more about their situation than they do, and the only person taking the risk is them. My parents let me play a lot of risky sports when I was a kid and as a result I have a bum knee and arthritis in one hand. That's the trade off, sometimes you get negative outcomes. And that is ok.
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