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One thing I would note on Mulvaney is I think it’s the first time a trans character went mainstream. The other higher profile one is a swimmer or a government official no one notices that isn’t always online. We don’t have a guy who played men’s NCAA basketball and took over the wnba. Something that would be way more high profile. The only other one is the Kardashian which never seemed that threatening and most wrote off to crazy family.
Also I would admit to finding him hitting the slender delicate frame that I find attractive. I guess this is a full time job but when we talk about female attractiveness like the dateme I think it shows how much could be improved if she wanted to break out of her dating market.
Laverne Cox is also more famous than Mulvaney. The first trans woman to be nominated for (and win) an Emmy, first trans person to appear on the cover of Time and Cosmo magazines, 6.4m followers on Instagram.
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Caitlyn Jenner (kardashian) is the biggest. American hero who won the decathlon gold back from the soviets, on cover of magazines, and now part of a sitcom family. She has 14.4 million followers on instagram to Mulvney’s 1.8million followers.
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