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If your dog spends 23 hours doing nothing and then has to eat boring food it is miserable. I don't think the treats are the issue, the issue is that dogs are supposed to engage in long distance hunting. After being out playing, running, chasing things and exploring nature there is no issue giving dogs treats. Treats should be rewards for achievement. When the wolf gets the moose he gets to stuff himself. When the dog has done well he should get to eat.
A few short walks on a leash don't satisfy dogs and don't keep them healthy either.
As for health, healthy dogs are happier. They can move better, have less pain and can enjoy life more.
Once again, this is the same story for humans. I have seen obese people argue that they gain so much joy from eating that it's worth it to them on balance. I think they're deceiving themselves and have lost the ability to appreciate how much better their lives would be if they could move comfortably, climb stairs without huffing and puffing, go for bike rides with friends, and so on.
I mean, yeah of course it's true for humans. I'm not under any illusion (nor are most obese people) that I'm happier at my current weight. I would be a lot happier if I lost weight. My failing is one of discipline and willpower, not one of being too foolish to understand that I'm worse off as I am.
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