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A close relative of mine visited SA around the turn of the millennium. They were about to walk one block to a restaurant when the hotel receptionist ran in panic after them and told them in no uncertain terms to take a taxi if they wanted to get there without being at least robbed and potentially much worse.
Around the same time I visited San Francisco and was surprised to read later that I had apparently stayed right next to ”the most dangerous block in the city” (according to our local newspaper). I never noticed anything during daytime other than the occasional homeless (who back then didn’t bother random passersbies).
Me a tourist on the East coast of the US checking into a hotel in inner city Baltimore without a clue a few years back.
I pulled a few retarded moves in Trenton, NJ as well. In my defense, I didn't know crime was that bad neighborhood to neighborhood. I thought there would be obvious markers like lots of police sirens and literal dumpster fires. In retrospect by being relatively unaware of the stark crime rates and how they make hotels in certain places cheaper, I put myself more at risk of Bedbugs than any actual harm given my short stay and reluctance to join a gang.
Don't regret visiting the hoods for cheap Chinese takeout during the day though.
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I'm a little curious as to how the taxi makes the definitive difference between being robbed or not in that scenario.
Completely divorced of context, I'd guess this was actually a scam perpetrated by the taxi driver and the hotel receptionist to drive more business to the former. Tourists are ripe targets for this class of game.
The harder numbers around SA crime certainly add credence to the assertion, though.
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