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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 27, 2023

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hat i always found frustrating with the mainstream progressive view of this matter is that they seem hell bent on blaming Men for this problem. Greg Matos, who wrote this (in)famous article which pretty much embodies the progressive view on the matter, has stated: “Women don’t need to be in long-term relationships.

Are women blamed for anything?

From the first pew research link and another one. The people who are most likely to be single are men who are: Black, young, only highschool educated, low income, and living with mom and pops

not surprising, low social value

Perhaps a bit of a divergent, but the entire dilemma has led me to a larger question of how much of life success (in dating, in work, in school) amounts to hard work. There was a post about on star slate codex sub reddit about how good IQ was at predicting life success.

Hard work is important but insufficient. Talent is more important than hard work, followed by parental/family wealth (has to be a lot, like millions) a close second, and then a good education for third.

Not to mention all the discussions being had about how race impacts such outcomes. Id be interested if there was some huge of huge meta study done on what percentage of these factors (IQ, class, race, gender, ect) all impact your chances at life success,

Lots of studies showing positive correlation between IQ and all sorts of desirable outcomes in life. The Terman study is a major one.

Are women blamed for anything?

Not collectively, but you can e.g. blame white women (even better: white feminists) or cis women for things, at least if you are a woman yourself. By default, women have a stronger association with most positive traits:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect