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In two words? Psychological warfare.
Women are the meme sex. They're shockingly vulnerable to memetic infection. Peer-pressure, social contagion mental illnesses, god awful fashion trends... Cutting didn't meaningfully exist before the 90s and now a double digit percentage of girls have done it at some point.
Remember that sex ed class exercise from film/tv where students would be paired up and have to look after like a bag of flower for a week as if it was a baby? Ever notice how after the 2000s that just stopped? (I never did it in highschool) Studies were showing this teen pregnancy deterent was INCREASING teen pregnancy and subsequent births... Girls were memeable enough that merely acting out motherhood with a bag of flower made them uncontrollably want kids.
You could boost fertility rates just by subtly changing the sex ed and school curriculum to encourage fertility instead of discourage it, stretch out sex ed/pe to all 4 years of school (will make kids more attractive too) pay young, stay at home, new mothers (selected for perceived attractiveness and status, must be superior to the professional woman teachers) to come in with babies and talk to the girls about their experiences and just ensure every 14-18 year old girl is interacting with a baby at least once a month...
aside from that there's lot of finacial and career jiguring you could do around the side, end all state funded girls scholarship/replace with boys ones, subtly change antidescrimination law so employers can once again subtly refuse to hire/promote women on the assumption they'll get married/pregnant and training will be wasted... which will become a self-fullfilling prophesy as women fall ehind their male peers... use the security states defacto control of the media to make sure that instead of every Teen Comedy and TV show having a requisite 1/6 characters be gay, instead 1/5 characters must be pregnant at all times... Hell if you just replaced every coming out storyline with a pregnancy story line, we'd be back at replacement fertility.
Subtly change highschool and university mandates to have 3x the dances, coed sleepaway trips, and as many social events as possible... With free tution, volunteer opportunities, preferential hiring, high status make work etc, to pregnant/recent mothers to get as many big bellies and babies in highschools and on campus as possible so that girls are constantly seeing slightly older, wealthier, higher status girls swelling, nursing, tending, and cooing at all hours of the day, every day.
They should see it in school, on TV, around campus, in the classroom, with a goal that by the time a girl is 20 she'll have interacted with 100 pregnant women of higher status than herself and 100 babies.
Before the 80s most women got married and had kids ages 18p22... this should be the goal. To effect a real change we should be aiming to meme women into getting pregnant in that age bracket.
Given how many girls still feel compelled to get pregnant and have kids in their teens, despite society waging an endless propaganda campaign not to and instead to become some aging girl-boss middle manager ... merely inversing the propaganda and who they're exposed to on "career" day should reverse the trend very quickly and then become self-fullfilling as more and more of their friends and classmates become memetic vectors themselves.
If men were not as vulnerable to memes as women, the US military would not spend any money on advertising to teenage males.
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It's probably not worth detailing every one of those minor disagreements, but it's weird to read kulakposts where a broad claims is spot on - "Women are the meme sex. They're shockingly vulnerable to memetic infection", yeah - but then all the stuff used to support it are not.
Also, you can't just say "subtle" and then describe a massive change.
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How realistic is this? One thing I remember clearly from childhood was how incredibly bad adults were at making things cool. The absolute least cool thing in the world was something an adult was trying to make you think was cool.
By the way, I know lots of young women who want kids, but they don't have them because they can't find a man up to their standards who wants to have kids with them. That seems like it could be just as big of a problem as women wanting fewer kids.
That's not true. The average age that a woman had her first child dropped to 22 in some countries during the baby boom. But that was unusual, and it was never as young as 18.
https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Mean-age-of-mother-at-first-birth-selected-countries-1950-2007-Sources-Council-of_fig1_51708846
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Argentina maintained above replacement TFR for decades by doing that, albeit unintentionally.
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Even if I thought your ideas did generally provide the correct outcome, you basically just entirely ignore the actual practical implementation of such policies. How are exactly are you going to engage and destroy the liberal memeplex, which already controls most of media and cultural institutions, and win?
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Mandatory emilpost for the flour baby thing, just in case it was never posted here: https://emilkirkegaard.dk/en/2023/01/the-infant-simulator-fiasco/
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