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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 13, 2023

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That isn't all or even most of what HR does however. But even so thatv is exactly what building social cohesion is like. Attending church, publicly espousing certain views, being judged for being outside those views, are all replicated inside organizations.

Social shame and social judgement is the building block of society. It's the reason we're so good at, it limits the differences accepted in a society, or in this case a company.

Of course all that "social cohesion" goes out the window when it turns out a plurality of your work force goes through the motions purely cynically.

Does it? People going to church still cheated on their wives and husbands. Some went to church and then secretly snuck out to a gay bar. Social cohesiveness is largely concerned that we publicly adhere to the shared values.

If you think a rule is nonsense but you follow it anyway, whether engaging in Church or at the DEI seminar you are still following the rules outwardly. You don't actually have to be a believer.

Does it? People hoingvto church still cheated on their wives and husbands. Some went to church and then secretly snuck out to a gay bar. Social cohesiveness is largely concerned that we publicly adhere to the shared values.

Yes, it does. We're not talking about believers going to church, but occasionally falling to the temptation of sin, we're talking about half of the congregation secretly following a completely different religion. Social cohesion is not people following the rules when they're afraid they might get caught, it's them following the rules even when they know they could get away with it.

Which is why God can see all and HR can read your emails and slack chats and anyone you talk to can inform on you.

Social cohesion is exactly people following the rules when they are afraid they might be caught. We're selfish individuals at heart, society has to fight against that and it has a lot of tools in its box to do it. The basic ones are fear and shame.

Which is why God can see all and HR can read your emails and slack chats and anyone you talk to can inform on you.

Your God's threats don't scare me when I think he doesn't exist, and my God is the true one, and HR snooping in my emails is proof there's no cohesion.

Social cohesion is exactly people following the rules when they are afraid they might be caught.

No, it's not. Social cohesion is being able to leave your doors unlocked, or to leave your bike on the sidewalk. It's not being afraid to turn your back towards someone, and it's knowing your hard work will be appreciated. You westerners really have no idea what made your society better than the rest. So be it, I'm happy to milk it for whatever it's worth until it collapses.