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Small-Scale Question Sunday for February 5, 2023

Do you have a dumb question that you're kind of embarrassed to ask in the main thread? Is there something you're just not sure about?

This is your opportunity to ask questions. No question too simple or too silly.

Culture war topics are accepted, and proposals for a better intro post are appreciated.

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Campsite Rule. Leave your casual partner better than you found them. That means no pregnancy, disease, heartbreak, missed opportunities, destroyed friends/family relationships. If you succeed in threading that needle it's fine, if you fail then you're a shitheel.

With the big exception being that if you get married (and stay married for ten years) the rest is irrelevant. Justifies anything.

Note that both these are retrospective rather than prospective. Focusing on how relationships are formed rather than their results is the disease of consent-only sexual ethics. It's not just about the professor or student making the right decision to start a relationship, it's making the right decisions throughout to keep the relationship in bounds.