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And I consider this invalid, because the only thing that warrants protecting in my view is men's property rights over women.
Furthermore, the creation of fiction is automatically not violence or predation, because it's fiction (unless some better justifications than are being offered can prove otherwise in particular cases).
The state has also taken on the function of protecting people from violence, but it does not ban most threats, only fairly extreme and imminent ones, which is probably the best analogy here. I can with pretty much full legality quite credibly make you reasonably believe that I have a strong desire to kill you, with you maybe being able to seek a protection order against me at best (which barely punishes me in any way and even then usually requires repeated incidents), to a far greater degree than me masturbating to you would imply that I desire to rape you.
"The state has taken on a duty to protect against X meaning it must crack down to every degree possible on any behavior that could possibly be conceived of by anyone as relating to X whether sensibly or not." is what gave us years of coronacultist totalitarianism. No thanks.
??? The privacy of their nude bodies is not a subject of contention here. Their face is being put on the nude bodies of other people (who overwhelmingly are sex workers). It is little more than a high tech equivalent of what any teenager could have always achieved with a Penthouse, his school yearbook, some scissors, and some glue for decades. Did you think magical x-rays were involved here or something? (And on that subject, it's ironic that the state would supposedly be tasked with protecting this because its own imposed TSA body scanners are in fact the biggest known violation of it in human history.)
It absolutely 100% does if your primary purpose behind doing so is to create sexual transactions where men get horny over you/jack off to you in exchange for you getting cash/profitable attention/ad revenue etc.
I’ve already addressed your first point- the discussion is one of line drawing(that is, at what point so creepy comments towards women become criminalized) and not of whether men should have carte blanche to say whatever they want to women. We obviously disagree on where the line is drawn. And, for the record, a society where the state does not ordinarily police relations between men and women but her male relatives have much more leeway to use force in protecting her is also just, it’s just not on the table(and likely would not go well for a self-described pedophile).
Yes, my daughters high school classmate doing and then disseminating this would seem to me a quite central example of grounds to become very angry, and resort to violence if regular disciplinary channels do not punish him.
Most women who wear a bikini are doing so because that is what our culture considers normal to swim in. You can deplore that(and I do) without thinking it makes them all sex workers(which it doesn’t).
It would go great if we all followed the masculine principle that I do what I want with my daughters/feminine property and the same for yours. (If you're actually a trad and not a modern moral missionary on a rampage in disguise then surely you can agree to this.) Otherwise you do realize that we pedos own guns too right? Angry agecucks do not scare us.
Well unfortunately for you he's almost certainly going to upload it to a Russian domain registered under a fake name under a fake username himself like "420lmao69". Good luck finding him. At best you end up as this guy. You should have just made sure your daughter didn't come off as an appealing piece of jailbait in the first place, like maybe a no bikinis rule would have helped.
In fact, why even have her in high school in the first place anyway? If you were really trad, you would know that it is only a danger and a burden for a woman to have that level of education, or much of an education at all beyond the basics of reading, writing, and arithmetic + domestic matters.
I feel like you haven't had many sexual conversations with many women. It's pretty easy to get them to admit that all of the modern normalized thot stuff turns them on and that they're addicted to the dopamine hits of sexualized attention and that's why they helped normalize it all and continue to participate in the normalization of it. Hell you can find such admissions all over the Internet too.
That "It's just a bikini. It's just what all of the other girls wear!" junk is just the excuses they tell their pet betas and other men they put on a clueless routine for to fool into thinking they don't know exactly what they're doing (because they're not sexually attracted enough to them to want to openly communicate sexuality to them).
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