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My first GF was black - we would've had kids had it not been for two entoptic pregnancies - her best friend was this small little gay dude we knew from HS who eventually got mega fucking ripped (and still super gay) - and they both had trauma from a shitty upbringing.
I am VERY (VERY!) sympathetic to being against woke shit - so much so that I mostly keep my thoughts private while touching grass - but there's a large difference between what you wrote being offensive and what you wrote making you offensive (not to me, perse). I haven't seen it yet but I was planning on seeing that and Maggie (the AI doll one?) tomorrow or just maybe Babylon (I enjoy famous people doing famous people things on screen) so I'll see how it goes when I do. There's also the point of course that in a vacuum this film might be fine, but of course, outside of itself it's the whole point that things that aren't normal are being normalized at potentially a psychotic degree.
The worst part here is if I do find the film boring ... there's absolutely nothing worse a film could be then boring.
I don't really understand, or what could be offensive about my entirely objective description of the elements of the movie, which I did not render any judgment on.
Wish I could say I wasn't envious.
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Is it? Walt Disney the person might have watched Tomorrowland lose $100M and vowed to try again immediately to find a new way to spark human optimism; Disney the modern company would probably turn up a risk-of-apocalypse dial themselves if it made profit projections look better. Maybe with Strange World set to lose $150M they might redirect again, though?
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