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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 12, 2022

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((And, uh, your tendency to ghost.))

People should be able to leave conversations for any reason at all, including no reason. Posting is not a job. I don't think giving people flak for "ghosting" helps foster a healthy community.

I don't think people owe responses in the general case. I think situations like the post, where there is charitably only one response that pretends to minimally engage with the serious criticisms of a controversial top-level post, out of many that instead try to incorrectly nitpick or simply joke, however, are far more unhealthy.

(I'm assuming you're saying "ChrisPrattAlphaRaptr made a crappy post, people called ChrisPrattAlphaRaptr on it, and ChrisPrattAlphaRaptr didn't engage with them".) I think the sin there is making the crappy post, not failing to engage.

For the record, I wrote 30,000 some odd words about that post and related topics with gattsuru already, hence my frustration at being told I'm guilty of ghosting. I was banned for a day and then took a month or two off from writing anything on the sub after that.

I've since also written 30,000 odd words in multiple conversations with FCfromSSC that you could dig up if you're so inclined. I don't think the other two people I specifically called out would be particularly interested in doing the same, but if they really want to rehash it, I'm willing.

No, I don't think that post (or even this thread!) are crappy. I think they're controversial. Which isn't a sin: the last thing we need is a forum full of 'so controversial yet so brave' that's specifically not.

It's very specifically not supporting them, or bringing false support and then neither changing your mind nor finding better facts, that risk turning into unintentional self-weakman.

No, I don't think that post (or even this thread!) are crappy. I think they're controversial. Which isn't a sin: the last thing we need is a forum full of 'so controversial yet so brave' that's specifically not.

"Jim Crow laws were great and we need to bring them back" is definitely controversial and brave take, even on this wokeness negative and HBDIQ science positive forum, but the poster was just banned ;-(

I often leave some replies un-replied-to because I can't think of anything good to say--which is technically within the theme of this forum, so.