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naraburns  nihil supernum  1yr ago (text post)   3002 thread views

Wellness Wednesday for December 7, 2022

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So...does anyone here suffer from severe insomnia or sleep apnea?

How do you handle it? I personally find it hard to both GO to sleep and STAY asleep and I feel like everything I've tried helps with one or not the other or helps with both but has potentially horrific side effects.

  1. Melatonin: used to work but kept me sleepy in the day. Last time I tried it it just didn't work.

  2. Trazodone (50mg): didn't work until I paired it with a lot of CBD and I'm never playing chemist like that again. I don't know if I was having some sort of interaction or just dealing with the anxiety of potentially having one but the outcome was the same. And I still mainly got only a few hours sleep.

  3. Marijuana (smoked. 1g of concentrate every 6 days) : this worked for both getting to sleep and staying asleep, mostly. When I first started I could get up to 7 hrs, around 5 with my cpap machine. Now I also wake up early again. I assume I developed a tolerance. I've also heard bad things about using it long term.

  4. Seroquel (25mg): worked for both; even if I do wake up I soon go back down. But also allegedly has horrible side effects and there's been a push against prescribing it for sleep. My original sleep clinic sounded...perturbed when I mentioned I was on it. I went off it, worked out 5 times a week and fasted and lost ~20lbs (suggested by my doctor as a way to help with sleep apnea). Then I tried it again once, as an experiment. Now I know why it was so hard to lose that weight until now: I was so hungry it almost wrecked my fast. For some reason, I also tend to pull of my cpap mask more when I'm on it - maybe due to being sedated? So I'm not getting therapy on it. Which raises my blood pressure.

  5. CBD (70mg) + L-Theanine (200mg): I did fall asleep,eventually. Got about 3 hours then woke up.

In all of these wakeup cases I essentially end up "topping up" on something else (e.g. benadryl) halfway through the night to get more sleep. Not only is that worrying in and of itself (you develop a tolerance quick) but I don't actually end up feeling as rested.

I've also done other things like getting smart bulbs that I lower to 2500K color temperature and dim around sunset and night lights on all devices. I think the smart bulbs actually did help me to be slightly more sleepy but I don't think it was that big a difference in the sleep quality.

I feel like I'm in a box where any choice will lead to bad health outcomes either way. Even worse: I have very limited window to experiment: a bad night of sleep wrecks me and now is really not the time to be cognitively crippled at work.

I have a much lesser issue where I simply have trouble falling asleep but stay asleep. What's your bed like? I got a top of the line tempur-pedic with cooling and it was huge, temperature in generally has been super important to me. I'm sure you've heard all of the standard practices that I've heard, like flexing/tightening and then releasing each muscle down the appendages until you get to you neck/traps. I have found that one helps a bit but not if I'm not already in the sleep "mood", I find I basically know 5 minutes into laying down if I'm going to be awake for several hours before falling asleep or not.

What's your bed like?

Pretty generic shitty twin tbh. I don't really notice it as uncomfortable anymore but maybe I'm desensitized.

I find melatonin very helpful. If you were taking a larger dose, consider a small one. It may be more effective and less hangovery (see SSC).

Thanks, will try that on the weekend!

My cpap took ages to get used to. A lot of fiddling with settings, trying different masks, etc.

I actually really like the mask I have now, finally. Took switching to a full face mask but it's far less annoying and I can get more than an hour on it, which was the situation before. I have another sleep study in 2045 (thanks Canada!) so I'll see if we can upgrade to another machine after that.

I was joking. Canada has long wait times for specialist care and I don't think things have improved since Covid.

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