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I don't like lying to my face. They don't want trans people left alone, they want them brought front and center, celebrated and glorified, shoved in my face relentlessly. If only I could simply leave them alone, but no, that hasn't been the case for years.
The left took the W from Obergefell v Hodges, then immediately escalated and moved on to the next fight, which was the T. This is the culture war of leftist aggression.
The slippery slope has proven to be prophecy, not fallacy.
Don't accuse people of lying unless you can prove they are lying. (Hint: unless you can read minds, you probably can't.)
@token_progressive may be demonstrating exactly what @hanikrummihundursvin is talking about (and man, it is not often that I agree with him...), that he is a fish who doesn't recognize what water is, but that indicates a difference in perception, not dishonesty.
Talking about how we genuinely see things differently, even if you literally can't believe that someone else sees things the way they say they do, is what the Motte is for. Calling people liars because they see things differently than you and you don't believe it is not.
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