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How often does religion come up in job interviews? I expect there are a few advantages from connections through church etc. but other people have those same connections from other sources.
Lots of people get jobs through connections. If you think someone is honest you are more likely to recommend them to be hired by your firm.
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The coded way for LDS people to signal their religion to employers is a bit of a joke within the Church - putting a section on your resume about your missionary service, but trying to make it as subtle or as not obvious as possible so gentiles don't pick up on it. To be clear, it's really only something you list as a new grad when you're scraping the barrel for things to put on there.
"Organized door to door sales presentations, presented quarterly earnings reports to superiors", it's kind of a meme.
I'd forgotten about that option. Those resumes are always hilarious. I've seen worse--I saw a resume where a guy boasted about "organizing a multi-billion dollar fundraiser" because as a missionary he had volunteered to help with the fundraiser.
FWIW, as a Mormon I do what I can to obscure that fact. So if there's much of a benefit there, then I've been missing out. I do work in tech though where things are possibly more anti-religion than the average field.
I've taken it off my resume at this point, I have enough project and technical experience that I don't need that. I only had it there when I was looking for first job out of school and had like, no good experience. I doubt it had much of a benefit, but it made me feel better to have a full page at least.
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