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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 21, 2025

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However, I predicted you'd come back super angry and spoiling for a fight, and here we are.

There was a post where the moderator said:

Be annoyingly verbose and add a bunch of disclaimers if you insist on doing it.

(I originally thought this was in response to WhiningCoil but I'm not sure now. That post seems to have responded to a lot of people.)

It looks to me as though this was an attempt to follow the moderator request. It's certainly annoyingly verbose and has a bunch of disclaimers.

You should really try reading an entire post before jumping on your keyboard to Au Contraire Mon Frer now and then.

If you had, you'd see I am indeed not blaming him for restating his original message with more words.

I am blaming him for prefacing it with the "drooling retards" crack.

Far be it from me to defend WhiningCoil, whose demeanor and positions I find deeply objectionable, but if you will tolerate my nitpicking - I think that in "(Drooling Retard Edition with words, words, words for the slow kids in the back who have hammers they can't be trusted with)", the opening slur refers to the kind of guy who would post a lengthy verbose message instead of a snappy call to violence, i.e. to the persona reluctantly adopted by WhiningCoil himself - not to the people who asked for the verbose version. Note that, although you quoted it as a plural, it's singular in his post.

Of course, this still leaves "the slow kids in the back..." as being obviously directed at the mod team. As I said, not seeking to help his case, merely indulging my inner pedant.