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... How specific do you want me to be? I am genuinely not sure what you're grasping at here, other than that we disagree over what internally motivates this particular class of people. Neither of us are mindreaders, and I doubt asking Kulak would produce an answer both of us believe. Perhaps Kulak is not the best example to use, since he's quite extreme and performative anyway and it's hard to guess what he honestly believes (if anything) other than "violence is good." However, I already stated my reasoning above: the sort of people suddenly motivated by outrage at the Rotherham rape gangs were not outraged many years ago (when I first heard about them, and I'm not even British!) and the reaction I saw from people who want to burn the place down and lynch all the kebabis now was "Where are these sluts' fathers?"
You seem to either object to my being uncharitable to people who want a race war, or you are striving to match me to that ingroup/outgroup empathy map that supposedly shows liberals care more about immigrants than they do about their own families. If I am misunderstanding you, I'm afraid you will need to clarify.
I'm just trying to get something more out of you than "I believe this is the case" because I care about understanding how and why people think what they do.
I don't really give a shit about that mislabeled graphic from that study everyone misquotes. Except insofar as the success of the meme reveals something about how people view each other.
I feel the same way I do when people say commies don't care about the poor and just hate the rich. There's some version of that statement that's true for some of the people. But it's not that simple and "they don't care" is the kind of thought terminating cliché that leads people to be befuddled when the people who don't care start doing radical things in directions they telegraphed.
I find this type of mind reading frustrating. People are a lot more honest and open about their intentions than they get credit for. People just don't like to look at or think about it.
I gave you my reasoning, which is based on my observation of behavior and statements over a period of time. When people post outrage about white womanhood being violated by alien brown hordes, but their every other post is about how white women are thots who are destroying Western civilization (and it'll be totally awesome when they get what's coming to them - which often enough includes "being raped by brown hordes"), I become skeptical that they are sincerely outraged on behalf of white womanhood. Or maybe they really do believe that white women being raped and abused is only bad if it's brown people doing it, which is no better IMO, and I also do not think is an example of "concentric circles of affinity." If I'm okay with you being raped and murdered by a neighbor because you're just a fellow citizen and not my family, but I'll cry crocodile tears about you being raped and murdered by a foreigner, maybe that means I really hate foreigners, but it certainly doesn't mean I feel any kinship for you.
And you know, you say you find mindreading and a belief that people don't mean what they say frustrating, and yet you started out by accusing me of believing:
which I have trouble reading as a good faith interpretation of my initial post.
If you choose to extend more benefit of the doubt to the Kulaks of the world than I do, so be it.
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