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There is a difference between trying to accept people for what they are and trying to convert them. For your religious example, allowing prayer vs forcing prayer.
The standards of evidence for a school trying to religiously convert children does not include "We don't stop teachers and kids from praying before class on their own"
Yes that massively shifted the abortion conversation both when it happened and for a very long after. You can even see the remnants of how the ruling pushed it into a states rights where Trump won on a platform promising no nationwide bans.
The LGBT acceptance of your version of the religious example would be more like the school allowing public displays of affection of same sex couples, to the same extent it allows them for heterosexual couples, and otherwise not getting involved in questions of sex and relationships. It would not look like what we're getting now - the school walls being draped with LGBT / Scientology symbols, and teachers talking about sexual and gender identities / thetan levels.
We're way past that point regarding LGBT acceptance.
That's not a result of conservative stopping to fight. If you think that phrase accurately portrays all the screeching about Roe v. Wade that I heard without even being American, culminating in the ruling actually getting repealed, then you're using wildly different definitions for words than those that I'm familiar with.
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