site banner

Culture War Roundup for the week of November 7, 2022

This weekly roundup thread is intended for all culture war posts. 'Culture war' is vaguely defined, but it basically means controversial issues that fall along set tribal lines. Arguments over culture war issues generate a lot of heat and little light, and few deeply entrenched people ever change their minds. This thread is for voicing opinions and analyzing the state of the discussion while trying to optimize for light over heat.

Optimistically, we think that engaging with people you disagree with is worth your time, and so is being nice! Pessimistically, there are many dynamics that can lead discussions on Culture War topics to become unproductive. There's a human tendency to divide along tribal lines, praising your ingroup and vilifying your outgroup - and if you think you find it easy to criticize your ingroup, then it may be that your outgroup is not who you think it is. Extremists with opposing positions can feed off each other, highlighting each other's worst points to justify their own angry rhetoric, which becomes in turn a new example of bad behavior for the other side to highlight.

We would like to avoid these negative dynamics. Accordingly, we ask that you do not use this thread for waging the Culture War. Examples of waging the Culture War:

  • Shaming.

  • Attempting to 'build consensus' or enforce ideological conformity.

  • Making sweeping generalizations to vilify a group you dislike.

  • Recruiting for a cause.

  • Posting links that could be summarized as 'Boo outgroup!' Basically, if your content is 'Can you believe what Those People did this week?' then you should either refrain from posting, or do some very patient work to contextualize and/or steel-man the relevant viewpoint.

In general, you should argue to understand, not to win. This thread is not territory to be claimed by one group or another; indeed, the aim is to have many different viewpoints represented here. Thus, we also ask that you follow some guidelines:

  • Speak plainly. Avoid sarcasm and mockery. When disagreeing with someone, state your objections explicitly.

  • Be as precise and charitable as you can. Don't paraphrase unflatteringly.

  • Don't imply that someone said something they did not say, even if you think it follows from what they said.

  • Write like everyone is reading and you want them to be included in the discussion.

On an ad hoc basis, the mods will try to compile a list of the best posts/comments from the previous week, posted in Quality Contribution threads and archived at /r/TheThread. You may nominate a comment for this list by clicking on 'report' at the bottom of the post and typing 'Actually a quality contribution' as the report reason.

13
Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

In a now famous remark, Edward Gibbon observed that ‘of the first fifteen emperors Claudius was the only one whose taste in love was entirely correct’, meaning heterosexual. If Gibbon was right, the Roman Empire was ruled for almost 200 consecutive years by men whose homosexual interests, if not exclusive, were sufficiently noteworthy to be included for posterity. -- Christianity, Social Tolerance, and Homosexuality by John Boswell.

“But,” added W.C. Firebaugh in 1966 “Claudius was a moron.”

When press’d by loads of state affairs,

I seek to sport and dally,

The sweetest solace of my cares

Is in the lap of Sally.

Let Yankey parsons preach their worst–

Let tory Witling’s rally !

You men of morals! and be curst,

You’d snap like sharks for Sally.

Yankee doodle who's the noodle

Wine's vapid tope me brandy

For still I find to breed my kind

A negro wench the dandy!

-- Drinking song set to "Yankee Doodle" attributed popularly to Thomas Jefferson as the "sage of Monticello"

A true gentleman has no vices, but he allows you your own -- Michael Shaara describing Robert E Lee

Hurrah for Maria Hurrah for the kid, we voted for Cleveland and we're damn glad we did!-- Song by supporters of Grover Cleveland after he fathered a bastard.

After guarding marriage with this modesty and reserve, he was equally careful to banish empty and womanish jealousy. For this object, excluding all licentious disorders, he made it, nevertheless, honourable for men to give the use of their wives to those whom they should think fit, that so they might have children by them; ridiculing those in whose opinion such favours are so unfit for participation as to fight and shed blood and go to war about it. -- Plutarch describing Lycurgus

Happy birthday, Mr President -- Marilyn Monroe to JFK; for those of you zoomers who don't know her, Meghan the Stallion describes her as "my favorite ho" and "the goat".

In a now famous remark, Edward Gibbon observed that ‘of the first fifteen emperors Claudius was the only one whose taste in love was entirely correct’

This is indeed a very amusing statement, considering that Claudius married his niece.

Swings and roundabouts. The Romans considered it fine to fuck men (as long as you didn't marry them) or your niece (as long as you married her). Gibbon considered it disgusting to fuck men (married or not), and fine to fuck your niece (as long as you married her). Modern blues consider it fine to fuck men (or marry them) and disgusting to fuck your niece (especially if you marry her).