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You would prefer a society where your children are certain to face all sorts of brainwashing, and likely also mutilation and torture as adults, rather than 5% (extremely generous estimate) of them going medically trans? I believe that you have priorities, but as you express them, they look extremely skewed, to the point where it's easy to assume you're having a knee-jerk reaction to trans rather than actually thinking about the relative badness your children will experience in 2025 USA vs. 1984 Oceania.
Certainly if someone stated in plain terms they would rather their kids certainly 1984-suffer over living in a society where they have a small chance of being convinced to sterilize themselves, I would think that person is either innumerate or "hates" the concept of trans to an irrational degree. You could be framing it in terms of overall fertility rates and shit, and then, like, OK, this person values his genetic legacy, this is at least understandable. But this hyper-focus on trans is why other people think you've just overdosed on trans outrage porn.
Suppose you're in Communist Russia, and your son is getting bombarded by propaganda of Soviet martyr soldiers in school (They took this shit really seriously. Propaganda of WW2 child guerillas, too). How worried are you going to be that he, a bright-eyed patriot, enlists into the Afghanistan war immediately after finishing school and gets heroically blown up by an IED without leaving you any grandchildren?
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