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Always a little bit amused when people not only take the most surface level read of a particular person's behavior, but aggressively impose their own biases on it, reading deep into 'body language' tics that may not even be there.
Its trivial to 'fake' a particular emotional state, especially to cameras. They're literally entertainers its part of their job description. The weird public behavior is about the weakest evidence of the true situation you could find.
So no, I have my beliefs about Kanye, but not much reason to believe he is actually going to lock a woman up without her consent and abuse her until she can't think of leaving.
Its absurdly hard for me to believe that this woman is 'trapped' in a marriage with Kanye in any real sense. My current most likely hypothesis is they both have some kind of exhibitionism kink that Kanye is rich enough to indulge on the largest platforms around, which is gross in that including the public into that is really violating everyone elses' interest in maintaining certain standards of decency.
And in those cases, acting embarrassed or humiliated is oftentimes literally part of the kink.
Also vaguely reminded of Bezos' new wife and her outfit at the Inauguration.
Yeah, this is my take too. It's a way clearer explanation than both people risking their reputations for basically nothing.
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