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She’s from the U.S. it’s different. Culturally and ethnically.
If she's a MAGA-pilled red tribe American living in London, she is around the 95th percentile of non-Muslim immigrants here in terms of how hostile to British values she is and how dangerous she would be as a potential fifth column.
If she is an American who cheerfully voted for Trump as the lesser of two evils despite the obvious red flags, then having her as a citizen would be mildly negative for British culture and society because right-wing populists being useful idiots for bad actors like Johnson have done a lot more damage to the UK than non-Muslim immigrants. But I suspect her economic contribution more than compensates for that.
As a right-wing populist and regretful Johnson voter, I will tell you the same thing I've told others: I will vote for the cleverest, most noble, most honourable man or woman who credibly commits to stopping immigration. When the great and the good, the MPs and the newspapers and Coutts bank and God knows who else collude to prevent any sane man from taking my political position in public, don't come crying because I voted for whoever you left me with.
This is why people vote for Trump, it's why I voted for Johnson and for Farage. And I'll keep voting until I find a politician who does what he promises to do. If you don't want that, break the cordon sanitaire and find a better candidate.
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Yes, the US and UK are famously "two nations separated by a common language." Other former colonies, like India, have much greater cultural ties to the UK. (Cricket, poor production value in movies/tv, cousin marriage, sub-US social mobility, spelling...)
Indian cultural heritage and genetic ‘median personality traits’ for lack of a better word under the layer of Britishness is very different though.
Americans and English are also sometimes much more different than they think, especially the ex-Borderer strain, but often closer in terms of heritage and base understanding.
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