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Thanks for the thoughtful reply.
Awesome! I'm flattered.
To be frank with you, I think most of these are truisms, behind which more thorny propositions are hiding. These thorny propositions mostly involve the use of violence (including threats of violence) by the government against its citizens, to induce them to behave in a certain way that you believe to be generally beneficial. We do not necessarily disagree about what is beneficial. What I suspect we disagree on is the intrinsic harm in using threats of force against fellow human beings to make them behave in the way we wish they would. For example,
I'm not attacking anyone at the moment. I disagree with progressivism, while I have disdain and enmity for wokeness. For example, I probably disagree with your position on "trans rights" (what exactly do you propose?), and on most of the topics you mentioned -- but I presume you hold those positions with an eye toward the betterment of the general condition of society, that you are open to changing your mind, and that you are interested in calmly listening to counterarguments. I also presume you hold those positions in good faith, and would continue to hold them even if it cost you something.
On the other hand, I do not have those same presumptions about woke zealots. What distinguishes them is a feeling of being entitled to be agreed with and obeyed, concomitant resistance to dialog, and a penchant for obsequious, opportunistic band wagoning.
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