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Just keep em away from your neck lol.
Hmmm you make a good case.
I think the counter argument would be going all map vs. territory invalidation and then pointing out that their didn't seem to be much functional impairment, but that's to some extent luck given the way Apple went and the obvious retort is "avoidable cancer."
I guess he does pattern match to "tortured genius artist" types, and outside of obvious bipolars that's gotta be cluster-b.
Yeah, that's a good counterargument for sure. When it comes to functional impairments, that's the terrifying thing about the higher functioning cluster-b types: they're so good at manipulating people that they don't have much trouble compensating for and otherwise masking their PD behaviors and largely passing as normies. According to Andy Herzfeld Jobs' ability was so good that even though Apple employees were aware of it, it was still effective in the moment and only after Steve left would it begin to wear off. He goes on to say that most employees would eventually give up and accept it as a force of nature, which is really the only thing you can do when even quitting is difficult.
PS: I've taken to sleeping with a cervical pillow to help out my neck, seems to have helped! Now if only I could get back into the habit of using my inversion table...
...you know that anecdote makes me wonder if another interpretation of the reality distortion is just nerds being shocked to interact with someone with actual charisma.
If you've ever met with someone high level (especially while young and impressionable) it can be quite stark, your ego gets totally consumed and you just go along with it (and for some people it's not even temporary).
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Good thing I looked up what a cervical pillow was, because I was going to say if a pillow for your cervix helps your neck pain you may a very bad sleeping posture.
Okay, SMH, but still, you get a point for that one. On a serious note, I thank Odin that I'm not a stomach sleeper!
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