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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 24, 2022

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And what if she watches stuff on her friend's phone? Or she just picks it up from them? This is the rapid-onset gender dysphoria idea after all.

Or that nice teacher Mx. Robinson "teaches" her the truth about gender and how she can choose to be whatever she likes if she has some discomfort with being a girl? What if - as some activists want to become policy - the school encourages her to transition and never tells you, so you don't even necessarily know enough to counter this stuff before it sinks in? Kids spend 8+ hours at school. That's a lot of influence.

And, tbh, for whatever reason, I think a lot of Americans are unwilling to go this far. Maybe laziness, maybe not wanting to appear tyrannical (Western parents tend to be softer imo), maybe because it seems like an overreaction.

I don't think this sort of Benedictian withdrawal is feasible for most. Especially if you factor in the state -vastly stronger than it was in Benedict's time- coercing you anyway. Who is optimistic that the state won't encroach on your territory?

Sometimes there's no replacement for simply having a sane society with good norms (or at least norms that favor you). The other side seems to understand this implicitly; the libertarian "you go your way, I go mine" definitely doesn't seem to be their operating principle. If they don't think it works for them then you should ask why it would work for you?

And what if she watches stuff on her friend's phone? Or she just picks it up from them?

For most of these types of teens the problem is they don’t even have irl friends. Most of this social contagion is spread online amongst the terminally online and desperately lonely

The school stuff could conceivably happen. Live somewhere conservative? Check in with teachers and pay attention to what’s going on at school, attend the meetings etc

I’m not saying stop resisting their propaganda and social engineering, I’m just giving some basic and helpful tips.