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PaperclipPerfector  3d ago (text post)   1674 thread views

Wellness Wednesday for December 18, 2024

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Three comments:

  1. Move out of Jersey City - no one wants to take the PATH to get a date. Also get an IPhone if you don’t have one.

  2. Don’t you have some fun friends who either do cool things or know cool people given you went to “elite” schools and work a “prestigious” job? Ask them to invite you to stuff. If you don’t then try to find them… they exist in those institutions.

  3. You talk about steroids and paying 50k for club tables but ignore the most EV move which is just bringing a bag of coke to parties. You will make friends if you have coke… trust me.

No need to get expensive surgery or pay the median salary in bar tabs just be the guy with a gram who lives in a cool neighborhood like the Village or LES. You will get invited to stuff if that’s the case.

Also shave because asian women don’t like beards.

Drugs are always a good way to make friends but countless social coke suppliers eventually become completely degenerate fiends who ruin their own lives astonishingly quickly, especially on extremely high incomes like the OP’s where you can spiral into a deep habit fast. I couldn’t recommend it seriously to someone without supreme self control who has also been around the drug for a long time casually.

Yes this strategy works best if you don’t like doing coke all that much.

It messes up my nose too much for me to fiend personally. I’ve found Twitter & weed to be much more addictive personally.

Nothing to spice up one's day like the constant fear that your already stuffy nose will start bleeding at any moment.

I do use my neti pot after if I do any lol

Also shave because asian women don’t like beards.

In my (not remotely limited) experience, this is not the case.

Where can I find this mystical Colombian connection?

Just ask around? If you’re at the right parties people will just offer. You can always ask for a connection there…

Is there someone in your office who raves a lot? (They may have mentioned Brooklyn Mirage or Basement as their weekly activity）

Ask that person first….

If anyone of your friends raves ask that person too… or if a friend mentions they party all night. Ex frat bros are more likely to have some but also artist types…

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