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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 9, 2024

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I've seen a lot of anti-feminist takes here and on similar message boards. But "feminists don't blame enough things on the patriarchy" is a new one to me

I... don't see where I said that?

So the people openly trying to change society to be more accepting of LGBT people are... also secretly conspiring to change society to be more accepting of LGBT people?

You're the one that equated NGO activity with shadowy cabals so you tell me. Also they explicitly list hidden pressure as one of the tactics they recommend. Also, the plot to remove age limits on gender affirming care was completely secret, and only came out by pretty much a lucky accident.

to be more accepting of LGBT people

Just a note that "be more accepting of LGBT people" we're talking about letting rapists go to women's prison because they suddenly declared they're women too.

That seems pretty different from the claim that the movement is really about seeking "control".

How is pressuring politicians to push through unpopular laws, and doing so secretly for the explicitly stated reason that doing so publicly would cause a backlash, not a form of control? How is using your high-ranking government position to put pressure on medical orgs to change their standards of care not a very direct form of control?

I was replying to the section of the post asserting there was

a big-money, top-down movement that’s being sold as “justice,” but at its core, it’s about control.

I was asking what "control" they were seeking separate from their claimed goals that they frame as "justice". You provided examples of different ways of them lobbying for their public goals. Sure, lobbying is often bad, but it's not a special secret conspiracy attributable to woke NGOs.


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Silly poster, he should have known that the only acceptable way to speak of shadowy cabals is to give them a name like "the patriarchy" or "systemic racism"

Those calling out "the patriarchy" and "systemic racism" blame many concrete effects on those and suggest many concrete changes.

You provided examples of different ways of them lobbying for their public goals.

Was trans surgeries for children a public goal? I was assured (and occasionally am still being assured) that it's something that doesn't happen. Similarly with sending rapists to women's prisons. Is government officials privately making demands of independent medical orgs, that violate their internal rules, just another way of lobbying?

Sure, lobbying is often bad, but it's not a special secret conspiracy attributable to woke NGOs.

It is attributable to woke NGO's, they're the ones doing the lobbying. If it's not a super secret conspiracy, you shouldn't have called it that.

Those calling out "the patriarchy" and "systemic racism" blame many concrete effects on those and suggest many concrete changes.

So do people blaming NGOs.