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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 2, 2024

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It can matter, as you have already agreed.

We have not agreed on this.

Yes, we did.

I said it mattered for apples. We are talking about oranges.

Your EOB has pineapples, guava, and pasta on it, but not oranges.

You're babbling. Incoherently. Please use actually relevant words. Aren't you supposed to know something about this topic, at a technical level? How come you can't even use the proper terminology?

I tried to use the technical terms and you didn't seem to understand with those. Abstract labels seemed to be a more appropriate tack.

Why aren't you satisfied with the EOB? It's a bunch of random number that has no association with what you actually pay, that seems to be to your liking.

You have not used the proper terminology. You've babbled about fruit.

EOBs are fine. They do, indeed, give relevant information. Why can't you even do that much?

What are you doing with the information in the EOB? How does it alter your decision making?

It's far too late at that point, because you've been lying and hiding the price from me at the time that it could have mattered. Probably the biggest way it alters my decision making is that seeing one reminds me to distrust people like you who are lying and hiding things from me, only to have it spring up later in a possible huge surprise.

It has no relevance to you, I can only tell you that so many times.

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