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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 18, 2024

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Laws which in practice aren't really enforced when a man is perceived to have gotten himself in over his head -- that's the point.

Yes, society still has a ways to go before it lives up to the ideal of being perfectly just.

Where $THING <> "force other people to pretend that you've changed your gender" I guess

I would describe it more as 'exist while presenting as the gender opposite that associated with your genitals at birth'.

resort to violence is not a part of the masculine story

There are times when it is perfectly justified to resort to violence; if Albert starts hitting Benjamin, I certainly do not think that Benjamin is obligated to stand there and let Albert continue.

to the extent that anything's actually changed

I don't know whether or how much it has changed, but if it hasn't, it needs to.

Who's this 'one'?

Anyone who is trying to move society in a direction in which Andrew being twice the size of Bill does not mean that the norms of society reflect Andrew's opinions more than Bill's, nor that Bill is obligated, under threat of bodily harm, to show any respect to Andrew that Andrew is not similarly obligated to reciprocate.

What does Tim Walz ... have to do with anything?

I was alluding to the speech in which Mr Walz said:

... we respect our neighbours and the personal choices they make, even if we wouldn't make the same choices for ourselves, because we know there's a Golden Rule: "Mind Your Own Damn Business.".

Even if one disagrees with the transgender ideology, a person, born with the genitals associated with one gender, choosing to exist in public while, via clothing choices/bodily alterations/whatever, presenting as the opposite gender is none of the business of the people standing next to them.