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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 11, 2024

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Trump is pro-gay marriage, although he probably won’t die on that hill, and it seems like he understands that he depends on people who wouldn’t like it if he did. Even if the Supreme Court overturns obergefell(I don’t think this is likely) gay marriage will stay the law of the land in most states, and more likely than not Missouri will be required to recognize gay marriages performed in Illinois, even if both participants were Missouri residents at the time.

Trump is pro-gay marriage

Citation needed. Trump says all sorts of contradictory things - what actual concrete actions did he take as president to protect/benefit LGBTQ people?

Trump’s state department made a push for decriminalizing homosexuality in other countries, for one example.

Trump is less pro-gay than democrats, and he’s not pro-trans. This does not make him anti-gay.

I mean, the original claim from token_progressive was "anti-gay-marriage party", which seems true?

But your claim was that Trump is pro-gay, not merely an absence of anti-gay.

Trump is supposedly pro-choice as well. It's not really relevant if the Republican majority and think tanks that select the legislation and judicial appointments for him aren't and he just goes along with whatever they want. It may very well be the case that gay marriage is in less danger from Trump than it would be from a different Republican president, but it seems unlikely to make a big difference.