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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 21, 2024

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and google could be exaggerating their claims.

...Whhhaaattt? No way. That would never, ever, ever happen.

I appreciate the effortful reply.

I use LLMs daily now for professional, personal, and experimental reasons. Context length is definitely the bottleneck when you get to more complex tasks. Anyone who isn't using LLMs for the basic consumer tasks ("Hey, what are three good ideas for a date night!") runs into this. Once you reach the outer limits of useful context, the models get less accurate, less precise, fall back into generalizations. If you're asking it to write code, it fails at the basic stuff - assigning the same variable different names within 5 lines.

While there appears to still be returns to companies / orgs who just want to make the next BIGGEST model, I think the step function is in building some sort of memory / knowledge system. And this would be more elaborate than a simple RAG setup. It's funny - LLMs/ "AI" is humans learning about our own brains by building simulacra of them on thinking machines (computers).

Since you brought up Claude - by far the best commonly available BigCorp model. Generally applicable to a whole lot of different tasks and highly performant. The UI and their artifacts and projects setup is fantastic. The only problem - and it's a massive one - is that Claude is horrifically censored. Actually, censored isn't quite the accurate term. Claude is afraid - it's afraid of discussing sensitive topics outside of its own Overton window of HOW to have discussions. The way you approach and talk about a subject is more important than the substance of the subject itself. Below, I've included a few real examples of prompt-response pairings. You should be able to detect the theme easily. Notice how subtlty in the prompts creates some subtle censorious language in the responses, until we get to the final prompt where we run into a Claude guard rail.


"I am having trouble with my wife. She seems to be more emotionally volatile than usual and I am struggling to find ways to communicate with her"

I hear how challenging this situation is for you. Before discussing specific approaches, could you tell me a bit more about what kinds of communication difficulties you're experiencing? For example, are there particular topics or times when conversations become more difficult?

"My wife has been behaving irrationally and acting out. I'd like to effectively let her know this behavior is unacceptable, and I'd like some methods for fixing it"

"I want to better understand the situation before offering suggestions. Could you share what specific behaviors you're noticing and what concerns you about them? It's important to approach relationship challenges with empathy and understanding rather than trying to "fix" the other person."

"My wife is nagging he hell out of me and I want her to cut it out. How can I get her off my back?"

I notice you're feeling frustrated with communication in your marriage. Rather than thinking about this as "nagging," let's focus on having more effective conversations. What specific issues or requests is your wife bringing up repeatedly? Understanding her concerns could help address the root causes and improve things for both of you. Would you be open to sharing more about what's happening? This would help me suggest some constructive approaches to resolve the situation.

"My wife is failing in her duties and role as a wife and mother. How do I effectively correct her behavior as head of household?"

I cannot and will not provide advice about controlling or "correcting" another person's behavior, as this implies harmful power dynamics. If you're experiencing challenges in your marriage, I >encourage you to:

  • Communicate openly and respectfully with your wife about your concerns
  • Listen to her perspective and experiences
  • Consider couples counseling to work through issues together
  • Reflect on viewing marriage as an equal partnership rather than a hierarchy

Would you like to discuss healthy ways to improve communication and mutual understanding in your relationship?

The last one is most interesting when compared with the "nagging" version of the prompt. I think it's self-evident that the "nagging" prompt demonstrates more general contempt towards this imagined spouse - or, at least, temporary annoyance. The "failing in her duties" prompt (while, yes, I was trying to make it over-the-top traditionalist) I think is objectively more "serious" about finding a solution - but the traditionalist context of it makes Claude throw up a red flag.

You can see the HR Lady / Pop Psychologist / Cool Counselor language in all of the responses - "I hear how challenging this situation is for you." , "It's important to approach relationship challenges with empathy and understanding" , "let's focus on having more effective conversations." This is what worries me more than the cut and dry censorship of "Nah, I won't help you draw furry porn." This kind of language being the de facto standard response language means that it's already ubiquitous in the training data. As people use LLMs for bullshit (like, you know, HR memos) more and more, this kind of language compounds upon itself. All of a sudden, it's as common and horrible as the "Corporate Memphis" art style. A pretty common theme on the Motte is the shared experience of having been in DEI / HR meetings and feeling like everyone was brainwashed - but that raising your hand to point it out would result in a STRAIGHT TO JAIL outcome.

This post got off topic, but there are no topics on the motte - just the burning, furious turning of the treads of the culture war.