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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 9, 2024

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As a part of sex ed, you teach that while contraception can prevent a majority of pregnancies, only abstinence can prevent it 100%.

Isn't this the status quo? Does any school's sex ed actually teach that birth control is 100%? I'd bet it's a very small percentage of women who are getting abortions who are educatable but uneducated about birth control.

The basic problem is that sex is fun, and not only are all forms of birth control less than 100% effective, all forms have significant downsides. Also couples in a sexual relationship want different things, or feel very different in the moment than a few weeks later when a pregnancy test has returned positive and their life has changed forever.

Their life has only changed forever if they are against abortion.

Having an abortion changes a person forever.

No it doesn't, unless your super religious. Most people don't give it a second thought.

I've heard accounts from women who have an abortion, and then years later see mothers with their children, realize that could have been them, and experience significant and lasting regret.

Did someone really say that to your face?

I, uh, don’t think that’s true.

I personally know people who changed their sexual habits because of a pregnancy scare. I’d expect actually having to go to the doctor, talk about it, etc. to be more impactful, even for someone who isn’t spiritual at all.