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As someone that's generally not much of a fan of the police, it remains wild to me that people aren't capable of viewing an incident and electing to believe that there isn't really a good guy in the picture. The cops in this video seem like they probably are authoritarian bullies that were unnecessarily rough because they didn't like the way Hill was acting. Nonetheless, this is easily avoided by not being a total asshole that tries to roll up your dark tinted window in their face. Personally, I would want the car impounded just for the tint even if there was no other infraction. I hate that shit. It just isn't very hard to find Tyreek Hill to be a completely unsympathetic asshole while also believing that the cops are petty authoritarians that acted unprofessionally.
This is my response to most conflicts. There is very rarely an interpersonal conflict where all parties involved act perfectly, or even with complete good faith. The cases where someone's clearly wrong, and someone's clearly right, don't make it to the public consciousness -- they don't have enough toxoplasma.
Everyone wants to think in black and white and see a victim and a perpetrator. There are certainly crimes like that, crimes of random targeting and heinous violence. But my view is that we live in a world of victimized perpetrators and perpetrating victims.
I have a little prayer I think of whenever I come across a conflict online, and find it hard to decide the truth of the situation:
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Tyreek Hill's job is to catch a ball and run. The cop's job is to enforce the law. Tyreek Hill being kind of an asshole to someone who is, after all, his enemy in that moment is not nearly as concerning as the enforcers of the law being authoritarian bullies based on the slightest excuse.
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