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I'd just like to point out that there is (at least in my state) a legal limit for window tint that is essentially never enforced, just like the legal limit on exhaust volume (violations of these two are correlated). It's remarkable that literally nobody cares about this anymore.
These are 2 huge pet peeves of mine as well. Garbage people gonna garbage, unfortunately, motorcycle guys are the worst for blowing out your ear drums as you're walking down town, don't leave them out. I don't get it "I LIKE IT LOUD AND DARK!!!" Insanity.
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I absolutely hate dark tints. The inability to make eye contact with drivers is frustrating and makes them less predictable. That the people with tints tend to be erratic young men that think they're hot shit probably doesn't help either.
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Just by the by: when I bought the car I have now, it had pretty dark tinted windows. I drove it like that for a while, and then took it to a tint shop to get the tint removed. The tint guy thought I was nuts, but seriously - I could not see what I was doing. Driving at night was impossible.
Since that experience, I keep a large distance from cars I see on the road with heavy window tint. My sense is that only can they not really see, but they are not drivers who are choosing to optimize for safety by any means either. Anyway I think it's a good law, and I wish it were enforced.
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