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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 2, 2024

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I think "my child has been murdered and I want all of the cruel, idiotic culture warring about his/her murder to end" is more than sufficient to explain the parents trying to block the release of the manifesto/diary. Perhaps not actually the tactically correct move to achieve that goal, but eminently understandable.

Except blocking it just made the culture-war aspect so much worse. People spent months thinking this was a highly premeditated act of political terrorism being covered up by a sympathetic politicized media, when with the diary it clearly just seems like an act of insanity by someone with serious mental health issues.

It made it much worse among a very small segment of people who became obsessed with it, as opposed to being front-page news the day after it was found.

It was front-page news when it was found, and now it's (local, mostly) front-page news again. Suppression ensured there would be at least two front-page events instead of one.

Now, it's local front page news that'll disappear in a day or two if nothing else new pops up, instead of part of the wider culture war and part of the Presidential election.

That I understand, I expect even, what I don't understand is the legal system cooperating with such behavior, especially to this degree.

It's the people whose job it is to be the cold monsters that remove emotion out of terrible situations to maintain justice and social cohesion even in the face of legitimate overflowing grief. I guess they too are human at the end of the day.