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Bunny ears (at least in the UK) would be with a pronated hand position i.e. palm facing away. The gesture of disrespect is with the palm facing inwards.
I've never seen someone indicate two with the palm facing inwards.
I (American) remember ordering two beers at an English pub, holding up two fngers, palm-inward, and being told by the bartender something to the effect of "Mate, never do that. Palm facing me."
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That's literally the sign for two in BSL, see the linked page which has a photo of a person making the sign.
And I'm saying I've never seen that gesture used that way. And I've seen plenty of people using two fingers to indicate two.
I don't know BSL and if that's the official sign then that's the official sign, I guess. Although I wouldn't be surprised to find out that the person responsible for that website just googled "person displaying two fingers" and used the first image that came up.
They've got photos for all the BSL symbols in the same artistic style so it's not just random internet photos but rather images specifically made for the page. For instance here's the page for cat: https://www.british-sign.co.uk/british-sign-language/how-to-sign/cat/
I think it's pretty clear two fingers palm inward is indeed the BSL sign for the number 2.
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