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Alas, my half serious suggestion of settling the Zionists near Zion National Park and having them share the American Zion state with the Mormons was never considered a real option.
I’d take that deal. Utah’s fantastic, and mormons are way better than haredim. I would prefer a slightly more northern location though, but that’s just haggling.
I'd always figured that if our Jewish friends can't figure out how to get along with the Mormons than I will change my mind about the neighborly qualities of Arab Muslims.
Well, I'm just n=1, but my family (wife and a bunch of kids) and I spent a good while in Utah and found it easy to integrate - adjusting a bit for the cultural differences between Israelis and Americans in general. My wife still keeps in touch with a couple of our Mormon ex-neighbors. They left a great impression on me - very polite, generally nice, and industrious. Ex-Mormons gave me the same impression, only they'd go for a coffee break with me.
There are also a couple of small Jewish communities in Utah, but I find American Jews to be a bit weird, so we had a harder time integrating with the local congregation.
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Adam Corolla used to do a standup bit that they could settle it if the whole thing was just moved to Baja, because people are happier in Baja.
I used to listen to Carolla's podcast damned near daily when I worked in lab, it one of the first podcasts I'd ever really listened to. At some point, it got a little repetitive, and I started to feel like he inserted too many right-wing talking points and was kind of a hack about it. A decade later, it turns out that as a California guy a couple decades older than me, he'd just had more time and opportunity to get sick of the bullshit and that in due time I would be every bit sick of people like Gavin Newsom and Antonio ViaRetardo as Carolla was.
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