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"Hypocrisy is the tribute that vice pays to virtue." We all have vices, if we stop paying tribute that means we aren't even acknowledging virtue's sovereignty anymore.
Someone who answers that he always comes to work on time probably isn't lying, so much as setting a goal that he almost certainly won't meet. Consider a different scenario: if I ask a room full of fat people "Are you going to lose weight this year?"; some say "Yes, I'm definitely going to lose the weight, this is the diet/exercise plan that's going to do it" some say "Yes, I want to, so I will" and some say "Nope, I'm just fat, this is who I am." Probably not that many will really lose weight. But more people in group 1 will lose weight than in group 2, and nobody in group 3 will lose weight. They aren't even trying to be better.
If you're the type who is "honest" about being a shitty employee, that doesn't really indicate you're a good honest employee, it means you're definitely a shitty employee and nothing will fix you, because even if I sit over your shoulder and watch you you're still going to be a shitty employee and just say something like "Hey, I'm just being honest, I'm not gonna hide it, man."
I haven't been late in four years.
You're an extraordinary man, then.
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