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Sure, as i pointed out, he is not alone. Bill Clinton as well. But even sticking to every one verified factually he probably has more very public ones than near any politician not named Kennedy.
Paying off porn stars, recorded crude comments etc. For most politicians that would have sunk them.
The Overton window shifted.
Boys use to be allowed to be boys but you did it respectfully.
We live in the social media age. Only fans exists. Sleeping with a porn star isn’t that big of thing (I’ve done it). But besides that grabby them by the pussy and screwing porn stars is normie compared to trannies on the White House lawn and gays banging in bondage in the Senate.
To say the obvious atleast Trump likes girls.
There was a Hollywood movie in the wake of the Clinton scandal, The Contender, about a woman who is chosen to replace a deceased Vice President. However, her confirmation becomes controversial when rumors of a college orgy surface. The Democrat-led argument 25 years ago was this private sexual conduct was wholly irrelevant.
Of course, the movie also pulls its punches by ultimately revealing the rumors to be baseless, drummed up by an Arlen Specter-like Senator played by Gary Oldman.
These are always arguments as kamikaze soldiers, to be used when convenient for maximum shock but with no real ideological committment to using them faithfully and responsibly.
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Did you pay the porn star to fuck you? Or discover you’re dating a porn star and put aside your dignity?
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I still think the average politician especially a Republican one gets asked to step down if it cones out they have been cheating with porn stars. The Overton window among boomer voters hasn't shifted that much for the average politician. But Trump is different.
Are we even sure he slept with Stormy? Her story sure changes a lot.
I'd say it seems likely but certainly paying her off makes it look more likely to be true. And in politics often perception is more important.
Now to an extent that is priced in with Trump which is part of my point. Romney probably would not have survived a revelation he paid off a porn star who claims and many people believe he cheated on his wife with. Trump can.
He also paid off the doorman whose story was obviously BS. Cost of doing business?
Sure partially, but again what I am saying is that Trumps personality and behavior both opens him up to accusations that are less likely to happen to a more "normal" politician AND allows him to survive those accusations.
Romney is less likely to generate those type of accusations and less likely to survive them.
Would it surprise you if Trump had been having an affair with a housekeeper? Even if the love child part is untrue.
No. It does seem clear he was sleeping with that playmate (mcdougal)
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