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I guess I am an irresponsible dipshit because I don’t memorize roads or memorize where people are protesting.
I think it’s completely irrational to think people can be experts in everything.
There is a reason why professionals exists in a lot of industries. A lot of people are not market experts. So financial advisors exists. A lot of people are not trained in law so lawyers exists. A lot of people don’t know fashion. So if a guy needs to find a wife he can hire an advisor. Many people can’t cook. So chefs exists. And many people (even more so now) outsource directions to apps. Instead of tying up prescious memory in your mind.
Likewise we hire police for a reason. Maybe they can be allowed to keep protestors out of the roads?
It seems impossible and unproductive to expect individuals to be experts everywhere at all the time in this world.
I will stick to blaming Joe Biden and Kamela Harris for backing this sort of behavior.
"Don't drive into a crowd of screaming people."
"How unreasonable! You can't expect me to be an expert at everything!"
Like I said he was using an App - either Uber or Google maps. And the crowd happened to be there when he turned.
I just follow the directions my gps tells me to do. It wasn’t his choice to drive into the crowd.
You are acting like he has mental knowledge of where the protestors are because he’s like god or something.
Protestors choose to protest in city centers. Which is the same place Uber drivers work. Where people live. Where restaurants and bars exists. He was just doing his job. Feeding his family.
Which is all well and good until your GPS steers you into an angry mob.
Or down a railroad track.
Or into a harbour.
Or your metamour is about to break a sportsball record making the ball from the previous record worthless, so the owner of that ball hacks your GPS to lure you and your wife into the abandoned warehouse district so the ballplayer will be distracted by grief.
Or aliens hack your GPS to lure you into a forest.
Or the sun throws its toys out of the pram and now the GPS satellites don't work.
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