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"Theodore Dalrymple" described the same pressures on black people in pre-Zimbabwe Rhodesia:
and the same effects are at play in modern Senegal:
And (though I don't have a source for this one) I've heard the same problem reported in multiple underclasses of the USA. If you have a sudden windfall and you save or invest it responsibly, then from that point until the point when you're broke again, any time a friend or family member asks if you can spare some cash, you have to choose between lying to them, telling the truth but then being seen as a heartless monster who won't share with them, or sharing and getting your savings drained away by them. In that context, blowing all your cash on a fancy new pickup truck (or whatever other splurge is appropriate to your particular subculture) isn't just foolish overconsumption, it's the closest you can get to actually saving money, by putting it into something that your community won't ask you to sell so you have money in your pocket to give them but that you could theoretically sell (albeit at a loss) if you needed money for a true emergency.
So anyway, it's not just a Romani problem (though you're not the first person I've read who reported it there). It seems to be almost a human universal that if you tell someone "he's not giving his money to friends and family" they see that as a moral failing, if you tell someone "he's not working harder to earn money for friends and family" they don't see that as an equivalent moral failing, and if you tell someone "those two attitudes combine to form an incentive mechanism that condemns whole cultures to poverty" ... well, it's better to try to explain differential equations to some people than game theory; they may not get it either way, but at least nobody looks at a Laplace transform and concludes that the mathematician explaining it must be evil.
For the very poor (especially, say, subsistence-farming peasants for whom a bad harvest may literally mean death) social capital is often significantly more valuable than actual capital (especially money). In a pre-industrial society there's nothing to invest in, and even nowadays you probably don't know how to invest because that kind of financial literacy isn't something people in your community have (which is why you get a lot of borderline or actual scams aimed at financially illiterate poor people). Being well-liked by your neighbors and being known as someone who will help out in a pinch earns you a degree of reciprocity.
It's not a cultural practice that is optimized for success in a post-industrial economy, but it works
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Huh, you know...I saw this growing up and I never actually considered that the reason was that locals didn't want to own a store in their home town. Because some locals did.
My main assumption was simply that the Arabs supported one another: it seemed like they'd fund someone to come over with access to stock, they sold out and went home and were replaced by someone else.
Indians also have their hooks in a lot of these countries and, imo, it just beggars belief that no local wanted to open those businesses because they'd have family members begging for TVs. I assume a similar mechanism: Indians have links to buy these consumer goods that are manufactured or made back home or even in other countries.
That’s possibly an explanation for why Cajuns and East Indians do so much better for themselves outside of Acadianna/India, although selection effects also loom large.
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That’s also why rural, working class men in the US own so many guns- they’re easy to turn into $500 for a true emergency at the pawn shop, but quite difficult to turn into $100 for your cousin in a very survivable tough spot. Spending your larger-than-expected bonus on buying a nice AR-15 is a reasonable response to living in conditions of being the largest earner in your immediate social circle.
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Isn't child support calculated based on the earning potential of the father? And he has to pay that amount, even if he is unemployed. So such logic isn't completely absent today, just quite rare.
Hmm... you're entirely right. I'd even say it's not rare, when you consider how it extends beyond child support. Alimony counts too, and so does working hard even when not divorced! Maybe the distinction is between "nuclear family" and "extended family"? A man who doesn't work harder when his wife and kids are in need is considered shameful, but is there any culture that shames a cousin for not putting in longer hours when his cousin is in need? I'd be surprised. First of all, there's a "why doesn't the recipient just work harder instead" question that applies to a friend or cousin more than to a child; second, it (perhaps uncharitably...) seems to me that the "you need to share what you have with the whole wide community" ethos has a lot of overlap with the "you don't get to have more by working harder, that's just a lie the Man uses to squeeze more profit out of you" ethos...
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