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Oh, it's you again. Damn cold, makes it harder to focus or I'd have spotted you before you got out of the queue.
I really don't understand the mindset of you and your ilk, though my best guess is that you feel like you have to "win," you absolutely cannot admit you've been made, and so you have to keep coming back again and again because surely this time we won't see through your clever disguise.
The thing serial alts don't understand is that most of them are just... honestly quite terrible at concealing themselves. Their writing style, their obsessions, the way they appear and engage.... they'll try to "disguise" themselves and think they're not giving themselves away, but the thing is, it has almost nothing to do with how smart you are. One guy I knew, on a long-ago forum no one remembers, was probably one of the smartest people I've ever known, but he was also absolutely batshit crazy, got himself banned constantly for being hyper-aggro and possessing zero self control, and he was obsessed with proving he was smarter than the people who kept banning him. He'd sneak back in, over and over and over again, each time as obvious as, well, one who farts in a room, loudly and pungently, and each time he was enraged that he'd get made and banned again.
Uh, what was my point? Sorry, rambling. Like I said, I have a cold.
So anyway, banned. Buh-bye.
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