srf0638
2mo ago
>back on Hinge
I know apps are terrible, but the counterfactual for a long time was "nothing at all", which didn't work very well either. Wish me luck, I guess?
srf0638
4mo ago
On the other hand, every gas station has sugar-free energy drinks for sale as well. The white Monster is at least iconic enough that Boomerjak is always depicted with one.
srf0638
4mo ago
Yeah, I mean, I guess it's true that at least once in my life I've "used my willpower to overcome the impulse to be sedentary", but the occasions when I've had to use my willpower to bag it when I was having an unproductive session (or not head out in the first place when I was sick, e.g.) are quite a bit more salient.
srf0638
4mo ago
What's the straight dope these days on probiotic supplementation post-antibiotic therapy? Already eat kimchi and will resume regularly eating yogurt when the congestion goes away.
srf0638
5mo ago
You "used Prius" guys, how have the batteries held up? I always understood that that was a major limit to service life, but I might be wrong.
srf0638
5mo ago
I'd want something like a beat up Hilux converted to run on LPG
You're optimizing your hypothetical car for something besides "niceness", but this is still car-optimization way beyond normie levels and way beyond " used Prius". (Though maybe not as far beyond normie levels as it would be in the US.).
srf0638
5mo ago
This is why the only current vehicles I can stomach are full size pickups.
A while back when I was cutting firewood on a semi-regular basis and regularly overloading an early 90s Ranger, I found a halfway decent deal on a 2001 Dodge three-quarter ton with 5sp manual and 5.9 Cummins. Great hauler, great tank range (I've road tripped a fair bit of Mexico in it), sounds great for about half an hour, generally very cool. On the other hand, everything that isn't the motor has a remarkable tendency to require involved or expensive repairs, it's challenging to park on less than about 40 acres, loud enough inside that listening to music is just about doable but podcasts are right out, expensive to operate, and honestly kind of a pig offroad because of the weight and turning radius. I don't cut firewood anymore, and it would probably be easier to carry motorcycles in something with a lower bed, but I also don't want to sell it because I'm pretty sure I'll never be able to buy something like it again. Alas.
Stylish big, powerful, kind of useless cars are now, sadly, purely a rich man's novelty item
Verging on CW, but see https://www.avoidablecontact.com/p/brief-notes-on-the-meaning-of-the
srf0638
5mo ago
Not strictly responsive to this thread, but I know a former hotshot superintendent and iirc sub-2:50 marathoner, generally regarded as an exceptionally hard son of a bitch within the relevant communities, who was pretty much an invalid for a couple years and out of the game for a decade or so due to chronic Lyme. Certainly moved the needle for my own risk assessment there.
srf0638
5mo ago
This strikes me as a touch overcooked. BAP is quite willing to go on about "shtetlbillies", and Sailer regularly talks about the perversity of Jewish support for immigration and the failure of high-achieving American Jews to show appropriate noblesse oblige.
srf0638
5mo ago
If you don't already have a trainer setup, old flywheel-type spin bikes are available free on Craigslist in most major US metros, and wheel-on "dumb" trainers under $50.
My own personal go-to in this situation has been to Just Ride Around, standing up periodically for comfort, while reading on an ereader or watching TV or whatever. Having said that, if you want something a little more purposeful or engaging, Zwift might be a winner. If you go the free spin bike (or cheap dumb trainer plus cheap bicycle) route you may need a little extra hardware but still quite a bit cheaper than Peloton. (see e.g. https://old.reddit.com/r/cycling/comments/10opzwv/cheap_zwift_from_zero/, https://www.bikeradar.com/advice/fitness-and-training/best-zwift-setups-for-every-rider).
There are also a couple of interesting Steam projects in the works: https://store.steampowered.com/app/2782020/WATTGAMES/, https://store.steampowered.com/app/2305360/Velo/
srf0638
6mo ago
Yeah, it's been my impression for quite a while that strip clubs and such in the west are much more about you and your boys than they are about you and the girls. Good posts.
srf0638
6mo ago
Endurance sports, travel (usually involving a modestly challenging journey by bike/moto/car rather than flying to a city and doing something there), reading, wrenching on and occasionally riding/driving motos/cars respectively, working interesting jobs that tend to be rough on relationships anyway, a few very close male friends that I talk to regularly and see a few times a year, the occasional hooker.
I'm not saying it's perfect, or that most people should do what I do, but all things considered I have it pretty good.
srf0638
6mo ago
Not by me, my personal acquaintances (not that any of them are exclusively soloists, but all of them go alone from time to time--if nothing else, it's tough to match schedules with your buddies as an adult), the other respondent in this subthread, or Colin Fletcher, whom a reasonable man might consider an authority in these matters.
More importantly, who cares? It's your time, your money, public land (or private land where you have permission to pass, or private land and you're being sneaky enough that you have a reasonable expectation of not getting turned around, etc.). As long as you're not bothering anyone else or tearing the place up, do whatever the hell you want. No International Federation of Outdoor Recreation is going to helicopter in and write you a ticket for failure to comply with the true spirit of hiking as determined in the twelve-point statement of the Lausanne Conference of 1889.
Thinking about it some more, it makes a lot of sense that a guy who's scared to go into the woods alone (or pretending to be, for the lulz) would ask this. Another commenter seems to imply that you're American but this attitude sounds very European or possibly Australian to me. (Aside: no, I don't know why a vocal subpopulation of Australians on the Internet are like this, you'd think a frontier nation settled by convicts would have a stronger instinct to live freely, but there it is.). It's not for me to tell you how to live, but I hope I've made the point that there are other ways.
srf0638
6mo ago
"If you judge safety to be the paramount consideration in life you should never, under any circumstances, go on long hikes alone. Don’t take short hikes alone, either – or, for that matter, go anywhere alone. And avoid at all costs such foolhardy activities as driving, falling in love, or inhaling air that is almost certainly riddled with deadly germs. Wear wool next to the skin. Insure every good and chattel you possess against every conceivable contingency the future might bring, even if the premiums half-cripple the present. Never cross an intersection against a red light, even when you can see all roads are clear for miles. And never, of course, explore the guts of an idea that seems as if it might threaten one of your more cherished beliefs. In your wisdom you will probably live to be a ripe old age. But you may discover, just before you die, that you have been dead for a long, long time."
(Colin Fletcher, The Complete Walker)
srf0638
6mo ago
I live in the western US and work in the woods, and while I guess "shoulds" are ultimately hard to argue this post reads as massively cucked safetyist nannyism.
srf0638
6mo ago
Separately, I just started Samuel Chamberlain's My Confession: Recollections of a Rogue and while I don't have any definite textual evidence yet I am extremely confident that George Macdonald Fraser must have read it and lifted a good deal of the style and possibly some more or less intact episodes for the Flashman books. Flash does run into the Glanton gang at one point, Fraser was never one to shy away from primary sources, and the voice will be strikingly familiar to Flashman readers.
srf0638
6mo ago
Recently read Robert Shankland's 1954 biography of Stephen T. Mather, written apparently quite straight in what I can only describe as a jaunty Wodehousian style. This has inspired several reflections:
-1954 was of course 30-odd years into Wodehouse's career as a bestselling author (modulo the whole German radio broadcasts episode), meaning that Shankland, in writing a piece of serious if perhaps hagiographic biography, presumably knew he sounded a bit like Wodehouse and chose to write like that anyway.
-One naturally considers Wodehouse's style as a parody of the dominant straight middle-highbrow style of the time. Indeed, Wodehouse occasionally steps outside this to parody the genuinely avant-garde (the occasional modern poet character) or popular crime fiction (various episodes of jewel theft and so on.).
-At the same time, virtually everything Wodehouse ever wrote and said was in more or less the same distinctive voice--is it really a parody if you're just like that naturally, so to speak?
-This also inspires the speculation that Wodehouse's style read as relatively colorless New Yorker prose to the audiences of its day. Imagine sitting down to Psmith in the City or Right Ho, Jeeves and having it read like Atul Gawande's longform medical pieces or something. It's enough to give a guy vertigo.
-At the same time, one can see cheeky flashes of Wodehouse from time to time in A. J. Liebling, who was after all a New Yorker fixture, and perhaps even John McPhee. Was Raymond Chandler a pioneering modernist with his works of hard-boiled fiction? Maybe--but he also went to Dulwich within two years, I think, of Wodehouse.
There's probably a coherent essay lurking in all this but I can't put my finger on it.
srf0638
7mo ago
biceps, triceps, pectoral muscles, and lats.
You really just gonna skip delts like that, damn.
Thinking about it, I don't know if I've ever looked in a mirror and thought I wanted bigger pecs. But I've definitely wanted bigger shoulders. A guy could go quite a ways with just supine-grip chins (on a fat bar, for forearms) and ohp variants.
srf0638
7mo ago
I think I would take post-depopulation Detroit over ~late 70s/early 80s ditto, and the rural parts of Japan and Spain, for instance, seem quite nice.
srf0638
7mo ago
On one hand, yeah, fair. On the other hand, I guessed before I clicked that it was a gravel event doing this.
srf0638
7mo ago
Eh, maybe, maybe not. "Kenyans would dominate Western States if they showed up" is a perennial LetsRun flame post. Every 15-20 years someone tries to build a pro cycling team in East Africa with lots of sponsorship money and it never amounts to much. Rowing, swimming, flatter cycling events, and by extension of the latter two triathlon, and possibly xc skiing as well all favor somewhat burlier body types than the typical East African runner.
srf0638
7mo ago
living increases testosterone and endurance sports taken to extremes actually suppress it
I was going to mention this as another example of sloppy equivocation but it seemed like it was straying a little far afield. I'm reasonably familiar with the relevant literature, and it seems like we're awfully ready in conversations of this sort to ignore other androgens, androgen receptor status, the differences between acute and chronic effects, what actually counts as a clinically significant effect size, etc. etc. This might be a reasonable analytical approach if you zoom out far enough (pretty obviously in the case of men vs women, for example) but that's surely too coarse a level of resolution to distinguish between "lift 2x, run 5x" and "lift 4x, run 2x" within the same individual.
The guys in these sports are just absolute nerds.
There's definitely a performance engineering mindset out there in Line Go Up activities, and I appreciate it. But I also see a kind of religion mindset, where as a trainee you do the thing because it's virtuous, a form of worship, and as a coach or advisor you tell people what they should want and what the virtuous thing to do is and baldly assert that one thing or another is true without empirical evidence or sometimes even without a priori logical argumentation--pretty far removed from methodically figuring out how to get from a well-defined A to a well-defined B and rebuilding Neurath's boat. Rippetoe is an obvious case in point, and I say that as someone who pretty much got into lifting thanks to Starting Strength (in fairness, he got a lot worse after 2017 or so). Older heads make it sound like the HIT types of the early 2000s were like this as well. Alan Couzens is an example from the endurance world (and I actually agree with quite a bit of his advice.).
are places where you can find something of a männerbund.
True, though probably 99% of my training has been solitary so it doesn't seem terribly salient to me.
I could do that logistically, now I think about it, but I don't like the bar environment very much. But maybe I should. Glad it's working for you, anyhow.
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