ToaKraka
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ToaKraka
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1hr ago
There's a significant difference between open hostility, neutral tolerance, and Stepfordized pretense. And you are literally the same person who was complaining about being forced to mouth false niceties just a few weeks ago.
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1hr ago
Well, if I just silently glower when I come home and invite no dialog, she probably will not. Or I suppose I could say "I don't care how your day was, but you may tell me if you wish."
I am imagining that, in a perfect romance, the romantic partners feel free to spontaneously start conversations with each other at any time, without the need for invitations that ring hollow. For example, the man gets up from his computer and invites the woman over to look at the cool program that he just wrote, or the woman calls the man over to the window to check out the cute deer that has just pooped in their backyard. As a friendless virgin I have no experience with such situations, but that's what I imagine.
I "don't care" in the sense that I don't care to hear the details or whether she had an argument with a coworker or it was unusually busy or the ventilation wasn't working so it was uncomfortable or the craziest thing happened at lunch or blah blah blah. That's stuff I listen to out of politeness.
Again, I have no experience here, so maybe I'm exaggerating the true intensity of romance (or just "putting the pussy on a pedestal", as the redpillers say). But I am imagining that, in a perfect romance, even in such a banal conversation, you are thankful to have an excuse to bask in the presence and attention of your romantic partner (as long as the venting doesn't last overly long).
You don't say "Good morning" because you think it's falsely implying you give a shit?
Absolutely. My coworkers would say "good morning", and I would reply "hello".
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1hr ago
The map is rotated 50 degrees counterclockwise so that it fits the relevant territories neatly into a rectangle without including a bunch of extraneous land in the upper right and lower left corners.
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1hr ago
But it's not untruthfulness!
You literally just said that you don't care how her day was. Asking about how her day was is untruthfully implying that you do care.
I am just asking how her day was because it gives her an opportunity to talk (or vent)
She can vent to you on her own initiative, without forcing you to make untruthful implications about your own interest level.
If my coworker says "Good morning," that is a social nicety. Social niceties are how people coexist in a crowded and complex society where a little pleasantness makes life more bearable.
Saying "good morning" to a person is an abbreviated wish that the person has a good morning, and therefore falsely implies that you hope that the person has a good morning. A much more neutral greeting with no misleading implications is "hello".
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2hr ago
Do I actually care about how her day was? Eh, not unless something notable happened. But I will still ask because women like it when you do that. And they do the same thing.
You have inspired me to make an "I hate the Antichrist" comic edit depicting the disgust that I feel for such institutionalized untruthfulness.
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4hr ago
IMO, changing the relevant option of the Rhineland issue from "owned and occupied by Prussia" to "Saar Basin owned and occupied by winner of plebiscite (Prussia), remainder owned and occupied by Prussia" is unnecessarily verbose when it ends up the same anyway.
Also, Paradox Development Studio didn't see fit to draw a province matching the Saar Basin's borders. I did make some edits to Victoria 3's base province map in order to properly represent Fiume and the Dalmatian Islands, but I don't think that redrawing a province to match the Saar Basin is worth the effort.
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5hr ago
It is possible for Armenia to become a United States mandate. The box is provided so that a person editing the map can use it as a source for applying the US's map color to Armenia.
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9hr ago
This fun map displays the 28 European and Middle Eastern territorial issues that the players are called on to settle in the board game Versailles 1919 (1 2). (The game also includes nine African and Pacific territorial issues that do not fit conveniently on a map, as well as 16 non-territorial issues that cannot be shown on a map at all, for a total of 53 issues.)
This game does not allow the players to dismember Germany, but it does allow them to smother Turkey, Yugoslavia, and Intermarium in their respective cradles.
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1d ago
My quote is from a work of fiction where the first Montreux Conference took place in 1929–1930, was fully supported by Mussolini, included representatives from NSDAP, and successfully decided on a definition of fascism.
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1d ago
Obligatory warning against arguing from fictional evidence (though I can't remember where I first saw this warning), but this definition from an alternate-history author who presumably has done some research into the topic may be relevant.
Between January and June of 1929, the CAUR [Comitati d'Azione per l'Universalità di Roma, Action Committees for the University of Rome, led by Eugenio Coselschi at the direction of Mussolini] worked on three separate goals: a universal definition of fascism, an aim later picked up at the Conference of Montreux in 1929 and 1930; to identify the criteria that an organization must fulfill in order to qualify as truly "fascist"; and, finally, to lay the groundwork for the Conference, to be held in December of that year. The first major obstacle, that of creating a proper and official definition of fascism, proved to be particularly troublesome and ultimately led to rather loose criteria's being used for the first conference, which was opened to all who had "their spirits oriented toward the principles of a political, economic, and social renovation based on the concepts of the hierarchy of the state and collaboration between the classes". In practical terms, this meant using criteria such as adherence to anti-communist ideals, the principle of "National Revolution", and corporatism, which was in itself loosely defined and allowed for the potential inclusion of any conservative or rightist groups—and, indeed, regimes that were "merely" corporatist.
In this work of fiction, there later is a schism between Nazism and fascism proper.
Amongst the declarations made at Montreux the day following the walkout [from the 1934 Montreux Conference of the NSDAP and its allies], of particular importance was that of Eugenio Coselschi, who in his capacity as Chairman of the Fascist International declared Hitler and Nazi Racism as dissidents who "yesterday opposed Christian Civilization, today Latin Civilization, and tomorrow human civilization itself". Furthermore, a formal declaration was made proclaiming that the International "rejected any materialistic concept which exalts the exclusive domination of one race above others".
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2d ago
I've forgotten the name
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3d ago
According to "the World Gold Council" (an association of mining companies):
| Type of above-ground gold | Proportion of total (%) |
|---|---|
| Jewelry | 44 |
| Bars and coins (including gold-backed ETFs) | 23 |
| Central banks | 18 |
| Other (presumably industrial) | 15 |
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4d ago
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4d ago
How the AP decided to describe joint US–Israeli strikes on Iran, and Iran’s retaliation, as a war
The Associated Press is using the word “war” to refer to the joint U.S.–Israeli strikes on Iran, and Iran’s retaliation. This reflects the scope and intensity of the fighting.
What does the AP consider?
The Merriam-Webster definition of war is quite broad: “A state of usually open and declared armed hostile conflict between states or nations,” or “a state of hostility, conflict, or antagonism.”
Even though none of the countries have officially declared war, the attacks by the United States and Israel, combined with Iran’s retaliation, meet those criteria. The decision by the Trump administration and Israeli leaders to attack and the subsequent destruction and casualties are enough to call the actions, and Iran’s response, a war. Trump himself has used the word war to describe the conflict.
Why does it matter?
It’s important to use the correct language to describe military action between sovereign nations.
Sometimes a one-sided attack occurs without further action, or a conflict starts but doesn’t escalate. Using “war” to describe those situations could diminish the word’s importance. Then, when actual war breaks out, people might not understand its significance.
What are previous examples of conflicts where the AP issued guidance to use the word ‘war’?
The AP provided guidance on the attacks on Iran by Israel in June 2025, using the term “war” to describe the conflict in the days after the initial attacks and Iran’s retaliation. The war lasted 12 days, and Israeli and American strikes greatly weakened Iran’s air defenses, military leadership and nuclear program.
The AP also began using the term “war” to describe the conflicts between Russia and Ukraine and between Israel and Hamas in the days and weeks after fighting began.
In those cases, editors considered the number of casualties, the intensity of fighting, the involvement of each party, and what each country was calling the conflict.
Could the guidance change?
Decisions on how AP uses the term “war” happen in real time. AP’s news leaders and standards editors will continue to monitor developments to see whether changes are necessary.
At this point, the level of fighting constitutes the countries being at war, no matter what happens next. If fighting were to end soon, AP would continue saying the countries had been at war.
More Americans supported Palestine than israel in a poll for the first time in the US.
Citation requested.
Forty-one percent of Americans now say they sympathize more with the Palestinians in the Middle East situation, while 36% sympathize more with the Israelis. The five-percentage-point difference is not statistically significant [the margin of error appears to be ±4%, but I'm not sure I'm reading the documentation properly], but it contrasts with a clear lead for the Israelis only a year ago (46% vs. 33%) and larger leads over the prior 24 years.
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5d ago
YouTube's recommendation algorithm just informed me of the existence of The End Is Nigh, a pseudo-sequel to the infamously difficult platforming game Super Meat Boy. I'm not too interested in the game itself (currently on sale for four dollars). But the game's soundtrack is composed entirely of remixes of classical music—and it's currently on sale for just one dollar!
Other video-game soundtracks that I have purchased:
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Shantae: Risky's Revenge and Pirate's Curse
Note that all these soundtracks are DRM-free. (I've seen people complain that at least one soundtrack sold on Steam actually does have DRM, in that it's playable only through an executable file. I don't remember which game it was for.)
Some older Paradox Development Studio games also have soundtracks of classical music (licensed from Naxos), which you can copy out of the installed files.
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7d ago
Fun pastime for lazy people: In your favorite Paradox game (Crusader Kings, Europa Universalis, Victoria, etc.), go into "observe" mode (typically with a console command obtained from the game's wiki) and just watch a "hands-off" campaign progress at maximum speed. If you feel like it, you can temporarily exit observe mode to make minor nudges (e. g., forcing an otherwise-AI-controlled country to declare certain wars, annex certain subjects, or pass certain laws) without going to the trouble of actually playing the campaign yourself. You also can make your own mods and see how they affect events.
It's my understanding that some sports games (e. g., EA's NFL series) also allow the user to watch AI-only matches.
Premise: You can use numbers (1, 2, 3), letters (a, b, c), and symbols (asterisk *, dagger †, double dagger ‡) to denote footnotes. The footnote reference in the main text normally is superscript. The footnote heading typically also is superscript, but if you're a weirdo who wants to maintain consistency with main-text and list-item headings you'll make it full-size (1, 2, 3, a, b, c, *, †, ‡).
Problem: You're a weirdo, and one of these things is not like the others. The asterisk already is superscript by default—in order to make it full-size with formatting, you have to give special treatment to it.
Solution: Instead use the "low asterisk" ⁎ ⁎, which is not pre-superscripted! Consistency has been achieved.
Problem: Annoyingly, the HTML named character reference "lowast" is misnamed and actually refers to the separate "asterisk operator" ∗ ∗, whose Unicode category is not "Punctuation/Other" like the ASCII asterisk but "Symbol/Mathematics" like the multiplication symbol.
Solution: If you're using XHTML (without any of the public identifiers listed on the linked page), you can simply repurpose "lowast" as your own custom internal entity that points to the correct character. LOL! (If you're using normal HTML or that disgusting middleware called Markdown, you've got to look up the low asterisk's hexadecimal code, "204e".)
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9d ago
Two chats (Telegram and Discord) are "recommended" in the sidebar of the front page (which is not visible if your browser window is too narrow, including mobile browsers).
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9d ago
To be fair, it is a random piece of custom software, rather than something with actual tenure and documentation.
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9d ago
It appears that @ZorbaTHut has been using an LLM for recent changes to this website's code. Perhaps that is the culprit. ;-)
My memory may just be faulty, but as far as I can remember my parents' interactions with each other (and me and my brother) seemed, not friendly or loving, but just neutral (before they divorced around age 50). They definitely didn't have any hobbies to talk with each other about.
As a child, I would emerge from my bedroom to spontaneously tell my parents about some random Latin-translation or modular-origami innovation that had caught my interest, without needing to ask how they were doing first.
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