Too few people know the first rule of in-law relations: if something needs to be said, it should be said parent to child or spouse to spouse, never directly to the in-laws. Your in-law broke this rule: s/he could have maybe confronted your wife, if absolutely necessary, but never you or your family.
Don't break the rule back. Do not confront your in-law. If something needs to be said, have your wife say it. People are giving bad advice in this thread.
Too few people know the first rule of in-law relations: if something needs to be said, it should be said parent to child or spouse to spouse, never directly to the in-laws. Your in-law broke this rule: s/he could have maybe confronted your wife, if absolutely necessary, but never you or your family.
Don't break the rule back. Do not confront your in-law. If something needs to be said, have your wife say it. People are giving bad advice in this thread.
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