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				Friday Fun Thread for February 7, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
I hope I'm splitting firewood when I'm 90.  Based dad.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Friday Fun Thread for February 7, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
When my they started to let stuff go instead of putting their foot down.

When they lost track of politics and kept repeating and arguing against 10+ year old talking points.

When they quit competing with me physically (running, lifting).

And gray hairs, of course.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of February 3, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					


But you have to own up to it, not say "how dare you throw away those precious fifty bucks, we need them at home!"




Sure, but you could imagine a vindictive, manipulative wife who says, "Oh, so you hate the homeless and what them to die??" and then spreads that exaggeration around their shared friend circle so that everyone thinks the husband is a jerk and shuns him.  The analogy breaks down a bit because marital and small-scale social dynamics are different than those between citizens of a nation, but you can see why the husband might obscure his true thoughts to avoid opening himself up to an attack that would ruin his social standing.


It's a lot like calling someone cowardly for not openly stating their thoughts on HBD, or UBI, or Marxist economics. In a society where, for normies at least , "free market" and "tolerance" and rounded up to "good," and "communism" and "racism" are rounded down to "pure evil," inviting your opponents to be frank about these beliefs is really just a disingenuous invitation to step into a trap.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of February 3, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					


I can only pitty the fools that still do preorders, can someone explain to me what consumers get out of them?




I've been too afraid to ask lest I out myself as completely out of touch.  I remember preordering at Gamestop so I could get a copy of $LATEST_THING before it sold out, and then later because it has exclusives posters or trinkets.  But these days, the Nintendo Switch store pressures me to digitally(!) preorder the latest Mario slop, and I have no idea why they expect I would do that rather than waiting until three days past the release date when I've read reviews.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Small-Scale Question Sunday for February 2, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Thanks.  Using EOs as trial balloons for future legislation make sense to me.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Small-Scale Question Sunday for February 2, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					


Do you have a dumb question that you're kind of embarrassed to ask in the main thread?




Yes. Why is Trump going all out on executive orders despite Republicans controlling congress? Next time a Dem wins it can all be undone, and if Dems win the midterms, there will be zero chance of passing legislation.  Are there too many Never Trump Republicans?  Does all the important legislation require a 60% majority?  Is the Trump admin working on legislation that I've missed? What's up?


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of January 27, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
I wonder if it's an age thing.  When I returned from overseas as an American citizen in my early 20s, my credit score was ~650 despite me never having had a loan or credit card.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of January 27, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
I'm against using LLMs in this place, but to be fair this criticism




This is the same like 3 points repeated a half dozen times and should have be edited down substantially.




applies equally to many Motteposts written by human(?) hands, IMHO.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of January 27, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					


nakedly extortive behavior




According to what standard?


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Small-Scale Question Sunday for January 26, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Softboiled is the true master race.  Easily digestible protein with delicious, vitamin rich raw yolk.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Small-Scale Question Sunday for January 26, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Heh, I'm not alone.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of January 27, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
I think your suspicion is reasonable, and I can't speak to how common my aunt's case was.  But AFAIK he simply ate the child support costs and straight up handed over the kids to my aunt.  I think they had a relatively amicable divorce because he gave my aunt most of their assets (house, car, etc).  He had already knocked up his new girlfriend and has since started a second family.  I admit I don't know how alimony works, but my aunt is middle class and white collar, while he comes from a working class background and, I suspect, made considerably less money than she did (during the time of the divorce -- I don't think it was so when they got married).


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of January 27, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
This is how I've feel.  I've decided I'm going to start worrying about society collapsing when people stop talking about society collapsing and start buying barbed wire and approaching their neighbors to discuss informal neighborhood defense pacts.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of January 27, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
While there certainly is fear porn, I think there really is more risk in some ways for modern women simply because being a deadbeat dad carries way less stigma than it used to, and everyone is highly mobile.


You can get married and have a kid with a guy who seems great.  Then 5 years into the marriage he gets bored and cheats, there's some mild tut-tutting but in current year there is no shared, deeply-rooted community that you both belong to, and neither of you are particularly religious, so he has no reputation to preserve and suffers little to no personal, professional, or moral consequence.  And what few consequences he does suffer simply evaporate when he moves two states away to live with his new wife and family.  This is in fact exactly what happened to aunt of mine who was an all around decent middle class person.  Her husband simply got bored and left, and that was it.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of January 27, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
I've come to the conclusion that this isn't really a problem from my POV since I and my coreligionists are already living the carpenter lifestyle (despite being white collar).  So I actually am against top down policy changes that make it easier for the status-obsessed, those ideologically opposed to me, and those who are too weak to self-sacrifice to have children.  I want more children for those who share my worldview and who have the proper disposition to raise a family.  I don't want to pay more taxes for a cultural reeducation campaign that doesn't address the core reasons why the PMC are ill-suited to reproduce (ideology and personality).


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of January 27, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Hey, that sounds like a good idea. We should try it in America.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of January 27, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
The motte is "peace and stability" while the bailey is a smothering, devouring-mother managerial state where nothing happens too fast or slow and all the sharp corners have been sanded off of every political decision.  There's a spectrum between the smothering hospice-care managerial state and biker gang anarchism, and just because someone would like to move a little further away from the former does not mean that they want to bring about the latter.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Small-Scale Question Sunday for January 26, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
There are tons of us.  In fact, our only rivals for Motte hegemony are the Subcontinentals, and we have the better space program.  Once our victory here is complete, we will use this place as a bastion from which to evangelize the wider internet on the sublime delicacy of white barbecue sauce.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Small-Scale Question Sunday for January 26, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
I played LoL against bots almost exclusively.  I found PvP stressful and other players rude/aggressive which wasn't what I was going for when I wanted to chill after work.  The people who played against bots were always way more laid back.  I recognize that PvP is supposed to be the main appeal of the game, just thought I'd share a different perspective.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of January 20, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Academic Agent always comes across to me as a meta-grifter whose grift is to claim that everyone else on the right is dumb and/or grifting (see also that skinwalker Hanania).  A grifter for hobbits with a slightly higher IQ. Okay, cool story bro.  Don't worry, I'll remember to like and subscribe to your Substack so that I can read your exclusive paywalled articles about how everyone else is a money grubbing shill.  On what grounds does this guy expect me to take him more seriously than the rest of the online political commentators?


Also @TheOneWhoFarts, do you have an opinion about this article?  Your post is just a summary.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of January 20, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Some reasons I can think of


    

  • check how consistent respondents are
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  • capture people who are attracted to both extremes
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  • capture people who are neutral towards one but attracted towards the other
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				Small-Scale Question Sunday for January 19, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
I understand where you're coming from, but I don't think the combination is as rare as you think.  Middle and upper middle class "alphas" or "chads" tend to be masculine leaders while also dressing well and requiring their girlfriends/spouses to do the same.  Think of the top salesmen in a sales department or C-suite executives.  I suppose the key is that they are probably not interested in women's fashion for its own sake, but only insofar as their woman's raiment can be used to reflect her man's high status and good taste (if I'm honest, this is also partially why I do it, I guess).


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Small-Scale Question Sunday for January 19, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
I'm just a single data point, but I definitely


    

  • ask my wife to change when she wears clashing/unseasonal patterns or colors
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  • encourage my wife to go to the gym and take time of out of my work schedule so she can go
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  • avoid buying too much junk food so we can both stay relatively thin
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because I'm not attracted to fat, frumpy, flabby women, but maybe your point was about guys looking for a quick hookup?


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Culture War Roundup for the week of January 20, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Posts like this are why I keep coming back to The Motte.  Very sporting, respect.


				

				

						

							

								
							

						


						
					

				
			


			

	


			
			
				

			
		

	






		

			
			
				Small-Scale Question Sunday for January 19, 2025
			
		

	

	

	

		
			

			

				

			

		

			


				

					
Just started Starship Troopers.  I wanted to read something fun, and I'm enjoy it so far.