hydroacetylene
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hydroacetylene
18hr ago
'Gentleman' and 'well bred' indicate a well mannered and well behaved male, with no implication of upper class background. A gentleman from the trailer park or the project wouldn't be the expected outcome, but it wouldn't shock anyone either. Conversely the badly behaved children of celebrities/european nobles are not gentlemen.
hydroacetylene
18hr ago
Nope. I have Indian wholesale antibiotics and recently got a second cat, I think the plague is irrelevant to me.
hydroacetylene
23hr ago
The definition of gentleman has actually changed though. Using it for the weird Norwegian royals(there are multiple) who don't meet the behavioral definition would be deeply nonstandard, while all of the wiki examples except Laverne Cox are central examples of the category 'woman' even if some of them have unusual lifestyle decisions.
hydroacetylene
1d ago
Constantine, obviously. Perhaps Alexios I Komnenos if you're allowing eastern ones.
hydroacetylene
3d ago
Not really, no. The people who actually tend to lose their jobs for public speech in the US are typically high up enough that Europe would call them executives with lower protections around that stuff.
Most Americans would be under no danger from their companies finding out they run a racist Twitter account. Now screaming racial slurs at a customer, yes, that would get you fired- but Europe would call that ‘misconduct’ or something.
hydroacetylene
3d ago
Most white southerners who are in a position to be elected to public office are descended from slave owners. Nobody actually cares because the only thing it actually means is having at least one ancestor who was in the top 10% of the population of the antebellum south; Talarico is in a feud with jasmine Crockett and thats thé only reason anyone’s bringing this up.
hydroacetylene
3d ago
Comparing yourself to Jesus is generally not done.
hydroacetylene
3d ago
It’s normal for strict religions living in technological modernity to see more young men than young women leave. For better or for worse, this is probably just normal generational apostasy being blamed on some unique factor to the group in question.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
Latin, Celtic, and mountain German- but not north Germanic- Europeans, Filipinos, and amerinds all have the same genes that allow for some parts of woke but not to embrace the whole package, clearly.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
Indians belong to thousands of endogamous castes.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
Concubines had identical obligations to wed wives in regards to motherhood. Those obligations are, by today’s standards, not particularly responsible parenting.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
I mean, that could just be because the Jews are more civilized and sophisticated than Indians.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
A dogwhistle implies anyone understands it, and even most admitted antisemites probably don't understand this.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
Datapoint of one, but I don't know every word on the left. One of them I googled and arrived at the conclusion that I need some khan academy to understand, not just a definition.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
And those things genuinely appear to have been relatively rare in historical societies- unmarried men visited prostitutes or, uh, lady palma. Respectable women might not have waited all the way til marriage, this was definitely acknowledged by relevant law codes even into the twentieth century- but these same societies listed 'asking for a blowjob' as grounds for divorce.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
Teen dating is actually a pretty recent thing- before about the thirties, dating was a serious matter for adults looking towards marriage(which of course didn't mean none of the young women doing it were teenagers). The fifties casual dating culture was a brief moment in time.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
The jews have it to, apparently. I've been told that the mormons have an informal one.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
Because women are low-agency.
I would also wonder how many of the men in san fran are not looking for, uh, female companionship vs NYC, given the reputation of san francisco...
hydroacetylene
4d ago
Uh, isn't slutcon basically just whoring routed through a different payment structure that isn't illegal?
hydroacetylene
4d ago
'Pass' is totally a normal and reasonable option- at a certain point, the corresponding man to a given woman in the 'would you want your child in a relationship with this person' scale is literally incarcerated, while the woman still has a clean record and is in full time employment(probably at walmart, but still). Rather being single over dating a convicted felon who doesn't have a job is an entirely reasonable decision, and if you don't think so get back to me when you have a daughter.
I'm willing to admit that there's a problem with average women turning up their noses as merely slightly above average men. I live in a bubble with very different issues with the marriage market, but I'm willing to believe it and there does seem to be corroborating evidence. That doesn't mean every woman should marry her corresponding man. The point at which they start to beat you and drink away all the family money is higher than the woman being unmarriageable.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
Look, I don't know you. I suspect the advice I can give is inapplicable because I'm handsome enough that chic-fil-a cashiers randomly hit on me(despite the increasingly obvious age difference). You could lower your standards, or commit to a given community. But you've got to do something. Men are the gender with agency. You can't just sit there complaining and expect it to find you a wife.
You can of course pay someone to find you a Moldovan wife.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
Orientals have weak genes, assuming you're white it'll just breed out.
hydroacetylene
4d ago
Catholicism seems mildly protective against the woke package as a whole, without necessarily defeating any individual piece. Including very liberal catholicism; even James Martin has some issues with the woke(boomer TDS, on the other hand).
hydroacetylene
4d ago
Women aren't monolithic. They're polylithic- that is, they reflect the values of their local communities more strongly than men do... but there's many local communities women might belong to.
All day chemist has antibiotics if you're willing to wait.
The cat was my wife's friend not spaying and....
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