hydroacetylene
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hydroacetylene
35m ago
Because women lack agency and protecting them from predation in time periods when they often have no choice in which authority figures they are exposed to is a worthy goal.
hydroacetylene
36m ago
I don't think that's really what he says? I think he's saying that this is narcissism of small differences in action, more than unflattering truth, and that incels lose out by departing from consensus as to their problems(it's not my fault because I'm ugly is a very different explanation than it's not my fault because of capitalist cisheteropatriarchy, even if they both revolve around justifying a lack of agency).
hydroacetylene
40m ago
I don't have much sympathy for fornicators running into consequences, even if those consequences happen to be ridiculous.
hydroacetylene
44m ago
People are pretty good at finding the motivation for doing what they've always done in the face of difficulty, as Albert Camus noted- imagining sisyphus happy and all that. People are pretty bad at picking out what they've always done from a large set of equally easy options, as existentialists also noted, even when that's what makes them happy.
hydroacetylene
2hr ago
This woman isn’t ’innocent’ although she’s also not a rapist.
hydroacetylene
2hr ago
Yes but also no- I don’t consider the boy being a teenager a relevant factor even if they both did a bad thing.
hydroacetylene
5hr ago
This is due to the American mania for consistency in stupid beliefs- in this case, that men and women are the same.
I, once adjusted for differing sexual morality standards, don’t particularly disagree with your point that statutory rape of a young man by an adult woman isn’t a thing thé same way it is of a young woman- although it remains disqualifying for a youth-oriented position. But in America treating transgeessions differently depending on the sex of the victim is not a stable equilibrium, and most people would rather overpunish unprofessional teachers than under punish rapists.
hydroacetylene
5hr ago
Why would you even want a pool when you don’t have kids?
hydroacetylene
5hr ago
Yes, thé people should get to vote on how often congresscritters are in DC.
hydroacetylene
5hr ago
This sounds like clickbait. And… sûre enough.
hydroacetylene
7hr ago
Again, I am not saying that social activities for the graceless should be conducted with the intent of meeting women, they should be conducted with the intent of improving social skills, and then go to book clubs or something.
hydroacetylene
11hr ago
When I was in eighth grade, my history teacher- young, female, quite pretty in retrospect- had a crush on me and it was blatantly obvious, she never did anything but it was incredibly awkward and I was not a fan of the experience.
hydroacetylene
11hr ago
Safe seats tend to have expensive primaries- thé US has two rounds of election.
hydroacetylene
1d ago
That's a severe lack of confidence in your kids. Are these people marrying the weakest partner they can find? Is this more blue tribe weakness-as-status-symbol, like ARFID and long covid?
hydroacetylene
1d ago
I live in a filter bubble with a median age of 12(not a typo). If you want children badly enough, you can have them. Economic reasons? I know people supporting double digit numbers of children and a SAHM, without obvious signs of poverty, on salaries of notoriously high paying jobs like 'welder' and 'teacher'. Health reasons? How much time you got for miracle stories that are more about the miracle of listening to doctors? 'Oh no one can keep up with more than one kid' I know a woman who had seven under eight while her husband business travelled... and she had a broken leg. 'Combining with education is too difficult' Lol no, lots of people around me are PhDs and have multiple children.
Most people just don't want kids. Eventually they'll die out. The Past is a Future Country was a strange prophecy, but I haven't seen an intelligent counterargument.
hydroacetylene
1d ago
Humans are tougher than cockroaches. Literally, we conquered the high arctic and the depths of the sahara where they can't go. The belief that humans won't persist through some postapocalyptic wasteland, perhaps your children conquering this mad max world, is... well I guess about as unreasonable as believing it's going to happen.
hydroacetylene
1d ago
Tradesmen often report feeling unwelcome in UMC neighborhoods- and they're not even particularly poor.
hydroacetylene
1d ago
What part of 'Go out and socialize because social skills are important and take work to build up' did you not understand? Lonely men should socialize including for non-meeting women purposes. Swing dancing happens to kill two birds with one stone, but MMA still helps to teach social interactions and being normal. No seriously social skills and confidence are make or break for male romantic success, that's why you see these men who are fat, slovenly, and poor who are ladykillers.
hydroacetylene
1d ago
The experiment has been run; the Germans had entire regiments made up of sixteen year olds, which fought as well as their conventionally drafted peers. On the other hand younger teens often lack the physical capabilities adult male soldiers need all those calories to support, and tend to do things like fall asleep on watch.
On the whole, setting the age of majority at sixteen doesn't seem distinctly worse than eighteen or twenty one. But you have to pick an arbitrary line somewhere and it's going to be wrong for quite a lot of people, that's what an arbitrary line is.
hydroacetylene
1d ago
Basically everyone knows it, though, and they don't need a fancy man scientist to tell them so- even if it fails to replicate, it's a conclusion that everyone over 25 already believes.
hydroacetylene
1d ago
They don't want poor white people in those neighborhoods either, you know. Far less than they want wealthy blacks.
hydroacetylene
1d ago
OK, stealing a gun should carry harsh penalties and be charged at the limit of the law every time. But we don't live in a well run society(the recommended 'solutions' to gun violence are also stupid and will never happen), and it sounds like the issue was these people getting an unusually good deal due to their youth, not to the nature of their crime.
hydroacetylene
1d ago
Yes, Russia obviously is capable of doing things that require a lot of thinking- but it can’t translate that into running a country that’s a nice place to live in.
hydroacetylene
1d ago
I didn’t say ‘go out and socialize’ as a blueprint for meeting women. I said ‘go out and socialize’ because social skills are important and take work to build up. Yes, swing dancing will get you closer to your goal of female companionship slightly faster, but MMA is likely still progress in that direction.
While a fair point, this was largely aimed at the married or dating but not wanting to take the next step(or, very similarly from my perspective, stopping at two).
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