The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:
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Requests for advice and / or encouragement. On basically any topic and for any scale of problem.
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Updates to let us know how you are doing. This provides valuable feedback on past advice / encouragement and will hopefully make people feel a little more motivated to follow through. If you want to be reminded to post your update, see the post titled 'update reminders', below.
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Advice. This can be in response to a request for advice or just something that you think could be generally useful for many people here.
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Encouragement. Probably best directed at specific users, but if you feel like just encouraging people in general I don't think anyone is going to object. I don't think I really need to say this, but just to be clear; encouragement should have a generally positive tone and not shame people (if people feel that shame might be an effective tool for motivating people, please discuss this so we can form a group consensus on how to use it rather than just trying it).
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I mean, I don't think me and the other mods particularly care (in the sense it's something to disapprove of) if you don't want to see your own upvote count. It's an intentional design decision, and we don't fuzz votes and do show exact vote counts unlike Reddit, so it's not entirely a legacy thing.
I consider them a sign of quality when I see high numbers (of course there's noise and partisanship, but surprisingly little of it on this site), and I certainly get a dopamine boost when a comment of mine is appreciated. I think it incentivizes good behavior quite a bit, given that we have a rather civil and even handed userbase, both active and lurking. Most of us here are because we like what this forum tries to achieve, and upvote for quality even when we disagree. Well, mostly.
But it you don't like seeing upvote counts and really want an option, raise it on the github, though I think it's niche enough that it's unlikely to be a priority anytime soon. We keep up votes hidden for 24 hours anyway, from others and our own users, to avoid feedback spirals.
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